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Old 6th October 2008, 3:32 PM   #1
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He calls me Baby still? Is there hope?

We speak on the phone form time to time. He still calls me baby. He said let me call you back baby.. He still calls me baby when ever we are on the phone. Sometimes when we speak out of habit i say love you and he will say it back.. Am i reading to much in to this?
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Old 6th October 2008, 3:36 PM   #2
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Yes.
Old habits die hard.
Tell him - if there's no hope left for us, please don't call me 'baby'. And if I say "I love you" don't answer the same, tell me to not say it."

if you really want to move on, that's what you have to do.

If you want to prolong the agony, make yourself suffer and hope in vain, feel confused, stressed and in limbo - just go on the way you're doing.
That way, it will take you years, not months to get over it.

If you want to be hurting that long, that is.
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Old 6th October 2008, 3:39 PM   #3
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Rarely to I respond to a post like this, but here goes...

It almost sounds like he is stringing you along. Did you ever tell him that you are not waiting on him and have decided to move on?

Oh yeah, and stop with the "I love you" 's. It will not help your situation right now.
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