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Old 26th September 2008, 8:44 AM   #1
NewKid99
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Where is this relationship going?

I recently found myself in a rather awkward relationship.

I've been seeing this woman for a few months. Things have been going great. We've always had good times together.

First off from day one she never calls me. She'll call me MAYBE once a week, maybe. Usually, Im the one calling and setting up the dates and leading the way. I have been leading the way on ALL aspects of the relationship.

Now, there has been no mention on being exclusive, which I want. I believe she wants the same, BUT since of her rather passive personality, I think she will never bring it up.

What should I do? It feels like Im doing all of the work and would like her to step up the the plate. It's about time I know where this thing is going.

I mean a man can only do so much in a relationship, correct?

Ideas?
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Old 4th October 2008, 4:19 AM   #2
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I think you need to sit down with her and and have a talk about your feelings. Doesn't sounds to me like she's going to lead the way on this one so you will have to. See where the talk goes and move forward from there. It's not fair to you if she doesn't feel the same way.
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