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Old 6th September 2008, 6:05 PM   #1
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Inviting Girls Over

I invited a girl over to hang out last night, it was really late but I'm an insomniac and go to bed really late and wake up really early, and I got the feeling this girl stayed up late too so I thought it would be cool. Anyways she replied to my txt with I definetly would but I'm already in bed and some joke. Any ways I really think I have a good chance with this girl and I don't want to screw it up by sending to many invites that get rejected... should I just play wait and see or should I try to get her to hang out tonight?
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Old 6th September 2008, 6:26 PM   #2
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KMT, how long have you been dating her? You know you're going to give off the wrong impression if you invite her back to your place. Or is that what you want?
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Old 6th September 2008, 6:41 PM   #3
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KMT, how long have you been dating her? You know you're going to give off the wrong impression if you invite her back to your place. Or is that what you want?
Wow... KMT asking for advice... Hell froze over???
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Old 6th September 2008, 6:44 PM   #4
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Wow... KMT asking for advice... Hell froze over???
I heard he has been going through a dry spell for a while now. I was only trying to help.
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Old 6th September 2008, 7:14 PM   #5
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Great I ask for advice and I get sarcasm and critisim
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Old 6th September 2008, 7:21 PM   #6
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KMT she prob didn't want to come over "bootycall style", so ask her out on a proper a outing not at 2am when you are horny and need a late night distraction.

It's not about how many invites you send it is about the "types" of invites, if you don't wanna screw it up stop with the bootycall invites.

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Old 6th September 2008, 7:37 PM   #7
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Maybe I'll ask her to go jogging she seems into fitness stuff
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Old 6th September 2008, 7:39 PM   #8
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Maybe I'll ask her to go jogging she seems into fitness stuff
Agreed.

KMT ask her on a proper date, dinner or something sociable. jogging / fitness wouldn't really be a date....
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Old 6th September 2008, 8:33 PM   #9
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Maybe I'll ask her to go jogging she seems into fitness stuff

tell her...........

"I wanna breath really hard with you and sweat with you......wanna go jogging??"
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Old 6th September 2008, 9:05 PM   #10
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Maybe I'll ask her to go jogging she seems into fitness stuff
That screams "let's hang out and and be fit together", it doesn't say anything about you wanting to have some one on one time with her.

Call her for a proper movie or dinner date. And don't ask her to go back to your place until at least after the 3rd date.
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Old 6th September 2008, 9:11 PM   #11
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I invited a girl over to hang out last night, it was really late but I'm an insomniac and go to bed really late and wake up really early, and I got the feeling this girl stayed up late too so I thought it would be cool. Anyways she replied to my txt with I definetly would but I'm already in bed and some joke. Any ways I really think I have a good chance with this girl and I don't want to screw it up by sending to many invites that get rejected... should I just play wait and see or should I try to get her to hang out tonight?

I hung out with a guy for a while that used to do this to me. He'd call or text at all hours of the night. When I called him on it he said it was because "I work evening and you're one of the only people I know that's up late too".

Well, I don't know where he got that idea, but his actions screamed "come over for sex" even if that wasn't his intention. Now, if that's what you want to portray then continue. If you want to possibly have more than that then try calling her before 10 or so and see what happens. She may be suprisingly receptive. I know I was.
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I hung out with a guy for a while that used to do this to me. He'd call or text at all hours of the night. When I called him on it he said it was because "I work evening and you're one of the only people I know that's up late too".

Well, I don't know where he got that idea, but his actions screamed "come over for sex" even if that wasn't his intention. Now, if that's what you want to portray then continue. If you want to possibly have more than that then try calling her before 10 or so and see what happens. She may be suprisingly receptive. I know I was.
Do we know the same guy? I used to have a guy calling me at 3 in the morning and asked whether I want to go over to his place for a beer? He annoyed the hell out of me, because he didn't even consider the fact that I was sleeping at the time, and had expected me to accommodate his needs.
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Do we know the same guy? I used to have a guy calling me at 3 in the morning and asked whether I want to go over to his place for a beer? He annoyed the hell out of me, because he didn't even consider the fact that I was sleeping at the time, and had expected me to accommodate his needs.
Wow, eerily familiar. I was always being ployed with beer and air conditioning

I did finally go hang out one night when he called at 7pm instead of 2am.

I ended up watching him play a video game for most of the night, but he was honest...the beer and AC were plentiful
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Wow, eerily familiar. I was always being ployed with beer and air conditioning

I did finally go hang out one night when he called at 7pm instead of 2am.

I ended up watching him play a video game for most of the night, but he was honest...the beer and AC were plentiful
I hope you lost his contacts, cause I sure lost mine.
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Old 6th September 2008, 9:42 PM   #15
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That screams "let's hang out and and be fit together", it doesn't say anything about you wanting to have some one on one time with her.

Call her for a proper movie or dinner date. And don't ask her to go back to your place until at least after the 3rd date.
Going to his place is fine as long as it isn't late night. Early evening or afternoon is more appropriate.
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