Does he just want sex or is he actually interested?
I went out with a bunch of friends and sat next to this guy I've known for a while. As the evening progressed, flirting got heavier. He had his arm behind me, touched my neck, touched my thighs... At some point I aggressively grabbed his thighs and let him nibble my ears and kiss my neck...
At the end of the evening, he walked me home and we held hands for a few seconds. I gave him a hug at the front of my door and gave him a long kiss on the cheek. Before he left, he said he would call me.
What do you think of this situation? Does he seem interested?
Yes, he's interested in sex. As for anything else, I doubt it since he barely knows you. It's up to you to slow down the pace until he has the chance to get to know you. The only problem is that if you slow it down, you'll be considered a tease, since your first interaction has already gotten sexual without a date.
Yes, he's interested in sex. As for anything else, I doubt it since he barely knows you. It's up to you to slow down the pace until he has the chance to get to know you. The only problem is that if you slow it down, you'll be considered a tease, since your first interaction has already gotten sexual without a date.
Thanks for this. Do you think I got too sexual? Which parts were a bit too much in your opinion?
Thanks for this. Do you think I got too sexual? Which parts were a bit too much in your opinion?
Yes, I do think you exceeded the line and so did he, unless you plan to put out with him the next time you see him, date or casual hook up. If this is what you want, no big deal. If that's not the impression you wanted to give, I would have stopped him at the point he put his arm around you, as long as it was just a casual draping of the arm on the back of the chair. If he put his arm around you and pulled you closer, you're consenting to more right away.
Flirting with someone you're not on a date with, should only be taken so far, such as light touches, no further than the knee or the arm.
Frenchgirl, I think he walked you home in HOPES of sex. I mean, it sounds like you were coming on pretty strong and teasing him. Is that your normal MO when you meet guys?
Anyhoo - as I said, I think he walked you home thinking he would get laid (what guy wouldn't by your behavior!) and then said he would call you because he didn't know what else to say after you turned virgin at the door.
I bet $5 he walked away cursing you as a c*ck tease on his way home...
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