I finally cut the line. I was a mess for a long time, but it took some time to myself to cut my wife out completely. Her crap is on the front lawn, and she ain't coming back.
She gets paperwork on Monday. I have a meeting with OM's SO tomorrow afternoon so I can return the favor of finish off the big pig's relationship, too.
I have some details to finalize on the restraining order, but I will be giving my wife the one that that she snizzled about...the chance to "what she wants to." She's about to be free and homeless.
Thanks for all your support. I have a big trip planned, and I'll be without Internet for a while, but I'll check in sometime.
She gets paperwork on Monday. I have a meeting with OM's SO tomorrow afternoon so I can return the favor of finish off the big pig's relationship, too.
What kind of solid evidence do you have that she is having an affair and how do you know that she is stalking OM's SO?
What kind of solid evidence do you have that she is having an affair and how do you know that she is stalking OM's SO?
Solid evidence? I have plenty of pictures from her PI and mine, and I have a witness who provided three notorized statements. It's amazing what you can get when someone who works with OM is a public notary and wants to see him clean out his desk of candy bars.
I sucked it up when I needed to. I wasted a half of my life to prove that my wife doesn't deserve house, kids, or money.
Sometimes, being unfaithful gives a person exactly what she deserves.
I am not stupid. My wife gambled on that, and she will lose. I regret sucking it up for this long, but I am comfortable with the result. My kids matter more than anything to me, and they seem to be uncapable of caring about anything for HER.
Soda, do you have ALL of your Legal ducks in a row? I mean, do you have everything documented, have a Men's Right's Lawyer, going for Abandonment, including any and all possible abuse/s filed in a secure location, going for Sole Custody, protecting your finanaces, , bank accounts, credit card/s, including retirement plans, 401k's, pensions, protecting your house, ect., etc.?
Oh, if so, change the locks on the door!
BTW, is that Legal, can he throw her stuff out into the front yard?
Don't forget your camcorder or camera for those Kodak moments!
'Grats for taking the big step towards emotional freedom from infidelity. It's one of the most empowering feelings in the world when you finally get everything lined up and drop-kick them to the curb. If you do it with some gusto, they bounce into the gutter.
Btw, I also shared everything my PI gathered, with the ex-OWs husband, at the time. He found it very helpful.
Well, I'm glad that a man did this to a cheating woman, after all, you only see and hear a woman doing it to a cheating mans belongings. I'm not saying it has never happened, I just never heard of it before............
Anyway Soda, I'm glad that you're moving on, and ditching her.
I've been waiting for this no let me do that again... God DAMN I've been waiting for this!
All I can say is it's about time, enjoy these moments, I'm rather sure your evidence is much more then enough then what other people have had to provide (usually nothing) hell you've got statements and people lining up to give evidence , photographic proof too you'll be fine.
For anyone not familiar with Soda's story go and read some of his old posts, this has been something a long time coming. At the very least finally she's now out on her ass.
No, and it's too darn bad that it's rained the past couple of nights. That's disrespectful to her, almost like when she decided to disrespect our marital vows.
I love my neighbors, though. Apparently, my wife (out of town) tried to "check-in" with a neighbor to see if everything was "okay" at the house. My neighbor knows what's going on and said. "Nah, everything seems quiet."
My kids and I leave in the morning to go visit a cousin, and I don't know if I will have Internet access. So, don't be offended if I take a week to respond. My boss learned about my f-ed experience and told me to take as long as I want, but I should be back home soon.
I don't feel bad about this. In fact, everything happens for a reason. I've met someone who has enough integrity to refuse to experience anything more than a phone call until I kick my W to the curb.
My kids seem happier with the W gone. They don't know what's going on because they're too young to understand, but W is different (in a bad way) since she started her "relationship." When I asked them tonight if they wanted to call her (before we leave), my oldest asked, "Do we have to?"
I've been waiting for this no let me do that again... God DAMN I've been waiting for this!
All I can say is it's about time, enjoy these moments, I'm rather sure your evidence is much more then enough then what other people have had to provide (usually nothing) hell you've got statements and people lining up to give evidence , photographic proof too you'll be fine.
For anyone not familiar with Soda's story go and read some of his old posts, this has been something a long time coming. At the very least finally she's now out on her ass.
No, and it's too darn bad that it's rained the past couple of nights. That's disrespectful to her, almost like when she decided to disrespect our marital vows.
I love my neighbors, though. Apparently, my wife (out of town) tried to "check-in" with a neighbor to see if everything was "okay" at the house. My neighbor knows what's going on and said. "Nah, everything seems quiet."
My kids and I leave in the morning to go visit a cousin, and I don't know if I will have Internet access. So, don't be offended if I take a week to respond. My boss learned about my f-ed experience and told me to take as long as I want, but I should be back home soon.
I don't feel bad about this. In fact, everything happens for a reason. I've met someone who has enough integrity to refuse to experience anything more than a phone call until I kick my W to the curb.
My kids seem happier with the W gone. They don't know what's going on because they're too young to understand, but W is different (in a bad way) since she started her "relationship." When I asked them tonight if they wanted to call her (before we leave), my oldest asked, "Do we have to?"
VERY nice of the neighbor, I like that one by the way! For your oldest to say that, means that your oldest has seen something, or heard something!
Soda, do you have enough to go for sole custody, and get it? Because if you don't, your STBX-HEX, I mean wife,, will screw you for everything you got! You know infidelity doesn't mean crap in court these days, unless if there was neglect occuring! Go Sole custody if you can! Oh, have you done the Paternaty test thingy? Why I say that is, if your EX, duped you, you may be able to go for Fraud!
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No turning back! IWWH
, will screw you for everything you got! You know infidelity doesn't mean crap in court these days, unless if there was neglect occuring! Go Sole custody if you can! Oh, have you done the Paternaty test thingy? Why I say that is, if your EX, duped you, you may be able to go for Fraud!
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