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Old 5th September 2008, 4:07 PM   #1
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Im going to keep my story short!, to long to explain. Basically me and my x were together for 7 years before she moved to another state and dump me for another guy, married and now is having his second child on the way, shes 20 and he's 32, how i found out about the second child mutual friends told me they saw her myspace i dont care because i dont look at her stuff i moved on...well we havent spoken to each other or seen each other in over 1 year and 5 months, well recently i had an old email account I no longer use and try putting it in my IPhone and i notice i couldnt sign in, so i check through regular yahoo and I notice i couldnt access it, before i would notice i would get hack because my sent mail would be read and my folders will be open, I changed my security question because the old security question was to general for anybody to hack so I change it on purpose to confirm if it was my ex and i put a question only she would know, I guess she fell for the bait because she hack anyways after many months, Im a guy who knows his stuff and how to handle myself but this experience is kind of different for me, because we never had closure, we just stop talking and she did her dirt..why would she still look thru my email if she dump me, married some other guy and having his children? is like i know the why, i just need another view..
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Old 5th September 2008, 7:10 PM   #2
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I can only add my simplification of an explanation.

She's a bitch and a cheat. You're lucky you've moved on. Change your password and security question...

Unless you want to be really spiteful and would be kinda funny. Send yourself a email and explain in it that you know whose reading the emails and to F off.
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Old 5th September 2008, 8:10 PM   #3
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Unless you want to be really spiteful and would be kinda funny. Send yourself a email and explain in it that you know whose reading the emails and to F off.
Dont even give her the satisfaction of knowing that it angered you. I would just change the password/question and leave it alone. It does sound like she is a real nasty woman, and you're lucky to be away from her.
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Old 5th September 2008, 8:57 PM   #4
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I dumped my last bf (just 3 weeks ago though) and I find myself constantly curious what he is up to (google him, check him myspace, facebook etc)...partly because I'm not quite over him and partly out of curiosity. I sometimes check up on exes of the past out of sheer curiousity as well even though I'm over them.
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Old 5th September 2008, 8:58 PM   #5
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Dont even give her the satisfaction of knowing that it angered you. I would just change the password/question and leave it alone. It does sound like she is a real nasty woman, and you're lucky to be away from her.
Although I agree to and extent.. You honestly don't think she knows that this would anger someone? Invading their privacy? I think she already knows this..
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Old 5th September 2008, 9:01 PM   #6
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I would delete the email.

It's not worth your time to think about why she's spying on you. She has a new life, and you're pretty much doing well without her. Basically you don't need her bull**** to bring you down.
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Old 5th September 2008, 9:07 PM   #7
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She is just being nosey!

Write an email and send it to a fake address reporting that you have been hacked and the police said that this is a very serious offence that whoever done it will get sent to prison lol
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Old 6th September 2008, 9:50 AM   #8
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Don't let her get a reaction out of you, just change the pass and security details and don't dwell on it. She's done it to be nosy or to check up on you, either way its not and you just need to put a stop to it.
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Old 6th September 2008, 1:02 PM   #9
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I agree with Lishy. Great idea!
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Old 6th September 2008, 1:15 PM   #10
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Since this is an old email address that you never use, I would forward anything worthwhile to your new email address, permanently delete the trail, then close the account.

If you've moved on, don't waste anymore time and energy with her childish drama.
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Old 6th September 2008, 2:57 PM   #11
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Although I agree to and extent.. You honestly don't think she knows that this would anger someone? Invading their privacy? I think she already knows this..
I hear what youre saying, but me personally, I would never want anyone to see that its affected me. She could be baiting you for a response or reaction. Just fix the passwords and let it be is what I would do.
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Old 7th September 2008, 11:34 PM   #12
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funny you guys that I had emails of chicks and she would see it, I guess what bothers once in a blue if her decision will ever haunt
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Old 15th September 2008, 9:52 AM   #13
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For new comers who read this, read the story so your up to date, basically my x hack my email again, can she be regretting or something?
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Old 15th September 2008, 1:54 PM   #14
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For new comers who read this, read the story so your up to date, basically my x hack my email again, can she be regretting or something?
Maybe she's regretting, maybe not...but you shouldn't care anymore. Don't drive yourself nuts thinking it over....better to let it go and move on. I broke up with my ex a month ago and it has been 2 weeks of NC and I still think about him alot and stalk him on his facebook, myspace and IM...but still, I don't want to be with him. I broke up with him because I don't want an LDR with him and I don't regret it.
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Old 15th September 2008, 6:31 PM   #15
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Yeah I feel you, she left proof that she hack it...Is like I know the why, but why
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