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Old 4th September 2008, 3:20 PM   #1
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If Girls Say the Past Doesn't Matter, The Present Becomes the Past so does it matter?

If Girls Say the Past Doesn't Matter, The Present Becomes the Past so does it matter?
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Old 5th September 2008, 12:33 AM   #2
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if a tree falls in the woods.....
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Old 5th September 2008, 12:39 AM   #3
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The present sure will matter if it causes her to break up with you and you become part of her past.
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Old 5th September 2008, 2:07 AM   #4
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Only if her time machine goes forward in time as easily as it goes backwards in time.

I think that when the present becomes the past, it only matters because it's a continuation of the past. Meaning that if the past happened and then that relationship or those feelings had an end-date, then they stop mattering so much. But if the present becomes the past and the relationship and feelings continue into the present, then the past does matter because it's still riding the coattails of the present. It's when the past loses its grip on the present that it all falls apart.

Those are my thoughts anyway. Let me know if you have questions on this or need clarification in any way....
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