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Old 3rd September 2008, 4:47 PM   #1
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Obsessed with finding girlfriend

I have been super obsessed with trying to find me a girl lately for like the past 2 months. I broke up with last girl about one year ago so I have been single for a year. Ive been scanning dating sites going crazy talking to as many as I can...I dont know whats wrong with me. I was doing this stuff 3 months ago.
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Old 5th September 2008, 8:58 PM   #2
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dang, I kinda thought someone would have gave a bit of advice or insight by now. Oh well, its kinda fun.
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Old 5th September 2008, 11:46 PM   #3
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First question is, where do you think you're falling short? Having trouble chatting a chick up, or getting the first date, or getting a second date? You said you've been talking to girls 'like crazy' - do you mean in person or online? If it's online, what kind of responses are you getting? Equally important, what are you saying to them?
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Old 11th September 2008, 9:20 PM   #4
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I think you are trying too hard. Just live your life normally, but yourself in social settings. Soon enough you will meet someone without even trying so hard. Remember bars and clubs are not the best place to be picking up potential girlfriends. Try joining a class that you always been wanting to do. The more people you know, even guys, the bigger your social network will be. Good luck.
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Old 23rd September 2008, 2:52 PM   #5
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get on the boat and just enjoy where the current takes you. you dont hv to look.. it'll come!if you're looking for friends.. i can be your friend ..weeeee!
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