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Old 2nd September 2008, 7:52 PM   #1
goodguy123
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Coworker with bf

Recently I've started liking one of my coworkers. Unfortunately she has a bf.

However we had a work party not long ago, and the whole night she was always sitting next to me, or walking around with me, etc. So much so, that many co-workers were making comments to me about it. I am not good on picking up on these things, but I could definitely sense something. I also drove her home that night, and was thinking about making a move, but didn't for 2 reasons. First, I'm horrible at making a move. And second, she has a bf. In addition to being bad at making a move, I didn't want to get rejected and make things awkward at work.

Even at work I think I can sense something. She might just like me as a friend for all I know, but I'm not sure.

I haven't met a girl I've been interested in, in forever! So what do I do? I just don't know how to go about doing anything about this. Any advice?
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Old 2nd September 2008, 9:10 PM   #2
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Not sure I would make a move if she's in a committed relationship.

But in general my advice would be to stop thinking of yourself as a "good guy". You'll just live your life having lots of regrets. So what if a girl rejects you? Some of them won't... and if you never make a move you won't get any practice.

Best of luck.
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