[Welshy123]

I've recently got engaged, to my first love, a guy i've been with for the last seven years. Found out today that he had a hotmail account that i didn't know about. Turns out he has been chatting to women online, cybersex and webcams for at least the last year. I feel so hurt and angry, more because of the lying than anything. Just dont know how we can move on from this point.

Anyone been in a simialr situation?

[TigerCub]

I'm sorry you're hurting.
Did you confront him about it? How did you find out about this email account?

[Welshy123]

Yeah I confronted him, at first he denyed it but then admitted what had been going on. So i supose thats a start.
How I found out? he'd been using my laptop to look at social networking sites and hadnt logged out. So when I went to use it, I saw he had a message in his inbox and read it. It was a reply to a message he had sent a girl the night before...telling her to email him on the "other" msn address.
Kinda wish now that i'd just logged out of his account. But then I didnt think ne thing off it, cause he often reads my emails for me, iwhen i'm out of the house ect. Didnt think we had secrets.