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I've been dating a guy for a couple of months and his birthday is coming up. Although we talk almost every day and see each other probably a couple of times a week, we've taken it fairly slow in other areas (i.e. are not sleeping together, are not committed, etc.). The consensus among my friends is that I should just get him a card and leave it at that. I tend to agree, but part of me feels sort of heartless doing that. (I love buying gifts for people, but I definitely don't want to freak him out.) Do you guys think a card is okay, or should I get him something? I really wouldn't even know what to get him...