[jjwest69]

She wanted to finish it, I told her to go and never speak to me again, I called her 2 weeks later and said some bad things like how heartless and cruel she is and she should just pack up and leave the country and my home town.
I now have herd some things around town that she is sad and angry at her best friend that did not help her move out of our house, she has no friends but her 17yr old son.She is very stuborn. Could she be waiting for me to save her or is this my mind playing tricks on me?.should i continue with the nc and move on, I still have hope and love her so much..
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[AdrianaLima]

She could be trying to draw attention to herself so that you can feel sorry for her. Who knows? But if you still love her and still have hope in her, or the relationship, maybe the two of you can reconcile. So if y'all talk again, and she ask you why were you saying those mean things, just tell her because you were upset that she wanted to end the relationship.BTW, why did she end the relationship?

[jjwest69]

she said that she does not feel the same way about me that she once did, she has no attraction to me anymore. I know she was introduced to a new culture in australia and she found new things and temptations, i think she has seen a new life she can have here, with out me...even though this new life was started and introduced to her and her son by me.

[AdrianaLima]

We'll there's nothing that you can do but move on. Continue to live your life. Of course you're going to miss her, every now and then. But accept this and learn from it.