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Old 24th July 2008, 12:48 AM   #1
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Problem with her.

My Ex and I got back together about a week ago. And she has changed a lot in the 2 months we were apart. She no longer wants to be touched very much, which really bothers me. Because I am a person that likes physical contact. We got into an argument today because she said I touch her too much. I don't think that I do at all. Just an occasional hand touch or arm around her. Other than that, we are perfectly happy. I just don't understand why she has changed, she used to love for me to hold her, and kiss on her. I don't know if she is trying to get used to us being back together or what the deal is...maybe she will come around and things will go back to normal...
Does anyone have any takes on this?
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Old 24th July 2008, 2:07 AM   #2
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it is too difficult to say.

why did you break up? did you cheat on her? she may need time to ajust her feelings
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Old 24th July 2008, 2:21 AM   #3
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maybe something bad happened to her while you guys broke up. maybe the same thing that drove her to reconcile with you.
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Old 24th July 2008, 8:18 AM   #4
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Well, I'm thinking the same reasons like the other threads are stating. She could just be getting use to you, all over again. But hopefully, their isn't someone else on the side.
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Old 24th July 2008, 8:25 AM   #5
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If you broke up for a couple months because you cheatedon her, it makes a lot of sense she doesn't feel comfortable with your touch. If she thinks you dated around while you were broken up, it also makes sense. Go slow and let her heal. What happened, why did you break up?
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Old 24th July 2008, 12:21 PM   #6
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I didn't date around or anything. She dated another guy. But she broke up with him. So, I am not really sure..
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Old 24th July 2008, 12:23 PM   #7
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Well, it could just be something that he may have did? You will never know, until she opens up and talk to you about all of this, and not just say, "You are touching me too much."
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