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Old 23rd July 2008, 9:45 PM   #1
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Red face Very personal question....

What is it about a guy's fixation on wanting to cum inside a woman, no condom or anything?? Has anybody ever heard of this, or do I only get the freaks? lol
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Old 23rd July 2008, 9:48 PM   #2
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What is it about a guy's fixation on wanting to cum inside a woman, no condom or anything?? Has anybody ever heard of this, or do I only get the freaks? lol
How old are you?

first of all condoms suck. Second, pull out sucks too.


If you're clean, and on birth control, then just about every guy will want to cum inside you.
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Old 23rd July 2008, 9:52 PM   #3
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How old are you?

first of all condoms suck. Second, pull out sucks too.


If you're clean, and on birth control, then just about every guy will want to cum inside you.

I'm 33.....yes I'm clean, but not on birth control...he wants me to be, but I'm having a hard time deciding on what form I want to go on... the most effective with the least side effects
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Old 23rd July 2008, 9:53 PM   #4
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This is the most natural act since the beginning of time. Are you kidding???
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Old 23rd July 2008, 9:57 PM   #5
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This is the most natural act since the beginning of time. Are you kidding???

I know, I know... I just dont understand why they dont want to use a condom and just cum in the condom, in me!
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:01 PM   #6
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Most men hate condoms.. I can't blame them .. it doesn't feel as 'natural' ... but in your case, if you can't take BC pills then he doesn't have much choice..
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:03 PM   #7
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No guys LIKE to use a condom... it's awkward, it doesn't feel as good, etc. Seriously if you give it just a minute of thought and think about what kind of sensations they have down there it's obvious why they would prefer not to use one. And I imagine it's pretty frustrating to pull out, too. My guy pulls out (I never specifically asked him to but when we stopped using condoms he started pulling out) but recently has been saying that he would like to cum inside me sometimes and I really have no problem with that. As long as you get on some form of birth control there is nothing wrong with it. People complain about the side effects but personally I have been on 3 different types of BC pills in my life and didn't experience a single side effect from any of them.
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:10 PM   #8
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No guys LIKE to use a condom... it's awkward, it doesn't feel as good, etc. Seriously if you give it just a minute of thought and think about what kind of sensations they have down there it's obvious why they would prefer not to use one. And I imagine it's pretty frustrating to pull out, too. My guy pulls out (I never specifically asked him to but when we stopped using condoms he started pulling out) but recently has been saying that he would like to cum inside me sometimes and I really have no problem with that. As long as you get on some form of birth control there is nothing wrong with it. People complain about the side effects but personally I have been on 3 different types of BC pills in my life and didn't experience a single side effect from any of them.
Yeah I can imagine the difference in feeling a condom makes, even the thinnest ones. I'd still be paranoid if I was on some sort of BC and he came inside me...the only sure-fire way I'd be totally relaxed would be if we were both "fixed" lol
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:14 PM   #9
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Have you ever been on birth control? If so, did it work for you in the past? If so, then you probably have nothing to worry about.
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:18 PM   #10
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Yeah I can imagine the difference in feeling a condom makes, even the thinnest ones. I'd still be paranoid if I was on some sort of BC and he came inside me...the only sure-fire way I'd be totally relaxed would be if we were both "fixed" lol
Do you want kids? If not, you can get 'fixed' if you want..
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:20 PM   #11
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Have you ever been on birth control? If so, did it work for you in the past? If so, then you probably have nothing to worry about.
I've been on BC before in the past, but it was only for regulating my periods...it was way before I lost my virginity, so, I couldn't tell you how effective it was at preventing pregnancy Since I became sexually active, I've just used condoms...the last guy was supposedly "fixed", but I still chose to use condoms, for fear of STDs.
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:22 PM   #12
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Do you want kids? If not, you can get 'fixed' if you want..
No, I don't want kids, and I wouldn't mind getting "fixed", I just can't afford it right now
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:24 PM   #13
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No, I don't want kids, and I wouldn't mind getting "fixed", I just can't afford it right now
Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want..
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Old 23rd July 2008, 10:25 PM   #14
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Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want..
Dag, lucky you
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Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want..
Don't get me started on the medical care [or the lack thereof] in the U.S. That's a whole new thread that would go on endlessly.
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