[irinaimisha]

I just got married a couple months ago and we had decided not to have kids for a while since we are both really young (21 and 22) and i still have college and things to finish. well, i have been working out, eating right and GAINING WEIGHT. not just fat to muscle weight but MAJOR WEIGHT! and now it appears i might have a tummy. well my husband swears i am pregnant and that i lied to him that i was taking the pill!!!! I would never do that and it hurts that he would think so. I am too scared to take a test but will soon... how can i make him believe that i had been FAITHFUL with the pill

[Keridan]

I'm sorry for what you are going through. It sounds like a time of high emotions.

I say you don't have to prove it to him. Your word should be enough unless you've broken his trust in some dramatic way, but that usually doesn't happen around the time of a marriage. He is likely scared and just doesn't know how to react.

Of course it depends somewhat on what pill you are taking, but you should still be having your regular cycle. You would have had to miss two or three before the weight gain from pregnancy would show up. Has that happened? Either way, you should still get tested, but there are many other reasons you could be gaining weight. Anything from hypothyroidism to stress from the recent wedding. Make an apopintment with your doctor and find out why it might be.

Tell yer husband that you are scared too and he needs to calm down and not make accusations. You have done your best to keep to the same plan as he has and now you need a friend, not a source of more stress.

I hope things calm down for you. The honeymoon stage is supposed to be fun

[Redbull Rider]

i would RUN to the store ASAP and get a pregnancy test. you may be scared but apparently so is he. truth is you both may be scared for absolutely no reason at all. the quicker you find out the quicker you can move past the issue or begin to discuss your options.

[GPFan]

Did you know taking antibiotics can neutralise the pill?

All you can do now is confirm whether or not you are pregnant.

[Meaplus3]

Originally Posted by irinaimisha

I just got married a couple months ago and we had decided not to have kids for a while since we are both really young (21 and 22) and i still have college and things to finish. well, i have been working out, eating right and GAINING WEIGHT. not just fat to muscle weight but MAJOR WEIGHT! and now it appears i might have a tummy. well my husband swears i am pregnant and that i lied to him that i was taking the pill!!!! I would never do that and it hurts that he would think so. I am too scared to take a test but will soon... how can i make him believe that i had been FAITHFUL with the pill

You really need to take a home test..or make an appotintment with your doc for a blood test. Good luck.

AP

[irinaimisha]

so i took the test and i am not pregnant but he is NOT GETTING INTIMATE!!!!!!!!!!!! i wore a slinky red lace nightie and he laughed at me and asked what i was wearing i asked him today why he didn't want to be with me yesterday and he replied with "who says i want sex tonight-" i feel like i never even started my honeymoon period we didn't have enough money to take a trip anywhere and its like living with a roommate who sometimes gives out...... i have never been so frusterated.... i look at peoples pictures of honeymoons and how happy they are and i just feel like crying and crying