Finding an old thread

Touche · 19th July 2008, 4:14 PM

Not sure where to post this. And I'm not sure the thread in question was even in the "Abuse" section but I need help with finding a thread. I'm really bad at this.

Someone PM'd me about getting over and past an abusive situation. I'd like to link this person with a thread that was started a while back about this. I remember posting in it but I can't find it.

It was something dealing with the turning point, etc.

Can anyone help with this?

Touche · 19th July 2008, 4:17 PM

Just for more details...it dealt with when you knew it was abusive I think. How you got out of it. And how you got over it.

Arise_Serpentor · 19th July 2008, 4:18 PM

Did you yourself post it?!! Can you remember ONE person in the thread?!
Can you remember ANY key words?!

Touche · 19th July 2008, 4:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Arise_Serpentor

Did you yourself post it?!! Can you remember ONE person in the thread?!
Can you remember ANY key words?!

I know. I'm so stupid. I did post in it but I don't know how to find it. I have waaaaay (

) to many posts to look through mine. I don't remember any other posters in there.

I think Walk posted in there. Shoot, I'd like to find it. It will really help this person I think.

Nevermind · 19th July 2008, 4:40 PM

Do you remember the time you wrote in it? More or less?

Trialbyfire · 19th July 2008, 4:45 PM

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/show...t=90082&page=2

It's not this one, is it?

Touche · 19th July 2008, 5:06 PM

That was not the one I had in mind, TBF. But thanks for linking it anyway. It was a good one too.

NM, no I don't remember. My memory stinks. I want to say it wasn't that long ago but I really don't remember when it was. I wish I could find it. It's an excellent thread.

Ariadne · 19th July 2008, 5:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Touche

Can anyone help with this?

When I have to do that I remember a particular word that they used.

And who wrote it.

And then do an advanced search from that person and include that word.

Could be "detrimental" or "devastating" or some word like that.

Touche · 19th July 2008, 5:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Ariadne

When I have to do that I remember a particular word that they used.

And who wrote it.

And then do an advanced search from that person and include that word.

Could be "detrimental" or "devastating" or some word like that.

Shoot, I don't know Ariadne. So many words would apply. Demeaned, degraded, whipped...etc. I don't know. I don't know what words I used.

Wow, I'd really like to find that.

whichwayisup · 19th July 2008, 10:52 PM

Would you say it was within the past 6 months? Let's say before LB was diagnosed with BC? Try to think back and associate with an event or a holiday.

whichwayisup · 19th July 2008, 10:56 PM

Is it any of these??

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/sear...archid=4660058

Ariadne · 19th July 2008, 11:02 PM

This is like.

I want to find a thread but I don't remember "anything" about it.

Not the name, not the topic, not the posters, not what they said, not the folder, not the words used.

Just nothing.

But it was good though.

Touche · 19th July 2008, 11:05 PM

No, Ariadne. It's nothing like that. I already said I had some idea of what it was.

No, sorry Which. None of those were the ones I was thinking about.

Ariadne · 19th July 2008, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Touche

No, Ariadne. It's nothing like that. I already said I had some idea of what it was.

No, sorry Which. None of those were the ones I was thinking about.

The only thing you remember is that it was "an abusive situation."

whichwayisup · 19th July 2008, 11:10 PM

But it was for sure in this section? All I did was put your name in the search, clicked 'abuse' and all the threads you posted in came up from that section.