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Old 19th July 2008, 4:15 AM   #1
wierdmunky
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Broke with the ex a year ago but still mad at him

I don't know why because I moved on, am in a really great relationship, but I just can't get over the fact that that douche did me SOO wrong!

Every time I look back because a conversation would remind me about something I did with him it, I would remember something he did that I didn't catch on to back then at that moment and then I always go that ass hole! I hate him! I can't believe he got away with that, I didn't stick up for myself and looked like the idiot gf!

example: new years, out in the city with him and his obnoxious party friends who have a distaste for me b/c I am of course at the time a wet blanket, a sour apple, the gf of fellow party animal, who brought their gf to new years! And I just remembered him making bird calls and laughing hysterically. I wouldn't mind but laughing hysterically because I didn't know? and now I do and it kinda really pisses me off. I'm sure I'll remember another one soon. Guess its time to make new memories but why do I even care
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Old 19th July 2008, 8:40 AM   #2
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There's a thing that really works for me in a case like that, be it a friend or ex that did you wrong. Write them a letter telling them exactly how much of a complete twat they are - no need to mail it! Just write the letter, as if you meant for them to read it, in all detail. It will make you feel better even though they'll never see it.
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Old 19th July 2008, 11:19 AM   #3
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I know how you feel, it is painful at what he did to you. How about when your on your own talk it out to yourself. Also as the other poster suggested write it in a letter and burn it.

It is something that you will think about every now and then.
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