[MrHurt]

Would you stay married to your wife who cheated on you why/why not?

As you guessed it my wife of 5 years cheated on me with a associate she worked with. Never thought that she would I was wrong! We have been separated since she came clean. Thank the lord we dont have kids. I dont know if I will ever be able to trust her again fully. What are your thoughts and opinion? What would you do?

[Owl]

Mr Hurt...I posted on your first thread when I suggested you come over here.

My marriage was recovered. We're doing great...but not every marriage can/does recover...there are a lot of factors that contribute to this, but at the end of the day, it boils down to YOUR choice to do so or not, combined with HER willingness to do what it takes to recover.

What's HER stance on things right now?

[Darth Vader]

Originally Posted by MrHurt

Would you stay married to your wife who cheated on you why/why not?

As you guessed it my wife of 5 years cheated on me with a associate she worked with. Never thought that she would I was wrong! We have been separated since she came clean. Thank the lord we dont have kids. I dont know if I will ever be able to trust her again fully. What are your thoughts and opinion? What would you do?

Well, you don't have children, right? Why have children with a woman who has cheated, who may more than likely cheat again in the future when you may have children, and you'll be tied down to this woman in one way or another for the rest of your life!?

It might be good to cut your losses and Divorce this woman. I hope you didn't leave the home, and had her leave. I would protect whatever assets that you have, and get a good divorce lawyer. I wouldn't be surprised if she's sleeping around right now, she might even end up preggers with someone elses child and try to pin it on you.

[Chrome Barracuda]

DV is possibly right. No kids and she cheated, she might do it again.

Plus youve only be married 5 years and she messes it up???

WTF? why would you go back to it? what does she want? is she still messing with the OM ,has she left her job, has she been remorseful, who wanted the seperation?

If she treated me horribly during the marriage and cheated on me I probably would not come back. Is she worth fighting for? has she made any attempts to return to you? apologized?

[Darth Vader]

How do you apologize for Riding some other man? (wife) "I'm soooo sorry I screwed another man, oh he was bigger and better at sex than you" PLEASE!

There's no sorry's for that! NONE! Maybe sorry for burning the toast, or using too much starch on a shirt, you might even be able to get away with saying that you're sorry for wearing the other persons underwear! But not for screwing someone else!