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Old 16th July 2008, 9:55 AM   #1
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Married nurse cheating - getting sued by patient lover

Now this is what I call a mess! Read this and see who you sympathize more for - the nurse or the patient who is suing her.

http://www.thestar.com/News/GTA/article/461017
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Old 16th July 2008, 9:59 AM   #2
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Neither one of them. They both seem like rotten people to me.
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Old 16th July 2008, 10:03 AM   #3
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It was a mental hospital. Equal responsibility doesn't apply. The nurse was in a professional caregiver role. It doesn't matter (to me) whether she was married or single. It likely happens a lot but is not publicized or sued over.

No winners here, IMO.
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Old 16th July 2008, 10:07 AM   #4
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I found it kind of unfair how this patient was aggressively pursuing a relationship with his nurse, and in the end he is suing her for negligence. The guy is in the hospital for bipolar and other personality issues, so he is definitely a major f* up!
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Old 16th July 2008, 10:42 AM   #5
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I found it kind of unfair how this patient was aggressively pursuing a relationship with his nurse, and in the end he is suing her for negligence. The guy is in the hospital for bipolar and other personality issues, so he is definitely a major f* up!
Those are the precise reasons why she should have avoided any kind of relationship with him, let alone a sexual romantic one. She crossed boundaries which she shouldn't have done. I'm in the UK and a nurse and my profession here would simply strike us off the licensing register. There's no way any nurse in the UK would be allowed to continue practicing after this kind of behaviour. Like you say, he's clearly not in any frame of mind to know what is acceptable or not, she was... she should have known better.
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Old 16th July 2008, 11:02 AM   #6
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I don't feel sorry for either one of them. they are both slimeballs.

But since she is married, then what is happening to her is just .....too funny.

I wonder what her husband is doing. Filing for divorce hopefully and getting custody if they have any children.
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Old 16th July 2008, 11:04 AM   #7
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I found it kind of unfair how this patient was aggressively pursuing a relationship with his nurse, and in the end he is suing her for negligence. The guy is in the hospital for bipolar and other personality issues, so he is definitely a major f* up!
He is a loser for sure and his lawsuit is a joke.

But he didn't hold a gun to her head. He didn't MAKE her cheat on her husband.

So hopefully what happens in this all is the lawsuit is thrown out, but the nurse's husband divorces her and comes away smelling like a rose.
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Old 16th July 2008, 12:45 PM   #8
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This happened at a mental hospital?? The nurse really should have known better! They get trained on things like this.
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Old 16th July 2008, 12:47 PM   #9
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He is a loser for sure and his lawsuit is a joke.

But he didn't hold a gun to her head. He didn't MAKE her cheat on her husband.
She was a nurse in a mental hospital. Again, she should have known better. This is the same thing as a teacher getting it on with one of his/her students, or a shrink messing with one of his patients. You just don't do these things in these proffesions.
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Old 16th July 2008, 1:55 PM   #10
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mentally unstable, and she ended up getting pregnant, or so she told this "John", to boot.
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Old 16th July 2008, 6:32 PM   #11
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Clearly the responsibility here rests primarily with the professional caregiver. People in positions of high responsibility are held to a higher standard.

They have a fiduciary responsibility to protect the client, not break rules, commit crimes, and damage the patients mental health for their own emotional/physical gratification.

Doctors/Psyciatrists go to jail for this stuff. This nurse is lucky that the legal system does not hold her to the same standard.
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Old 16th July 2008, 8:20 PM   #12
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This has less to do with whether the nurse was M or not and a LOT more to do with who was at fault - the nurse or the patient or both.

The law suit wasn't brought because the nurse was M
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Old 16th July 2008, 10:10 PM   #13
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Now this is what I call a mess! Read this and see who you sympathize more for - the nurse or the patient who is suing her.

http://www.thestar.com/News/GTA/article/461017

The husband who was betrayed by the cheating nurse (wife)!
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Old 17th July 2008, 8:42 AM   #14
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They both suck. She certainly didn't use professional judgment(a mental patient & you get pregnant)and he....well enough said. Idiots.
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Old 17th July 2008, 10:14 AM   #15
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This has less to do with whether the nurse was M or not and a LOT more to do with who was at fault - the nurse or the patient or both.

The law suit wasn't brought because the nurse was M
Nobody said it was. But since this is a relationship forum, I brought it up.

They both are $%^ in the head. But since she is married, hopefully her husband is putting her on the street.

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