[lyongirl]

I just met this guy about 2 weeks ago. The only situations we've been in each other's company have been either with a lot of friends while drinking (sometimes my friends, sometimes his) or alone at the end of the night after drinking together. He's given me his number and told me to call him, which I have a couple of times but he hasn't answered his phone, as well as telling me I'm smart and a lady. The last time we were out together we spent most of the evening together, and there was a lot of laughing and eye contact, and at the end of the night he gave me a big hug. We always have a good time together and I am very attracted to him, but am having a hard time reading him as to if he's interested in me. Can anyone help me out?

[confused and broken]

Originally Posted by lyongirl

I just met this guy about 2 weeks ago. The only situations we've been in each other's company have been either with a lot of friends while drinking (sometimes my friends, sometimes his) or alone at the end of the night after drinking together. He's given me his number and told me to call him, which I have a couple of times but he hasn't answered his phone, as well as telling me I'm smart and a lady. The last time we were out together we spent most of the evening together, and there was a lot of laughing and eye contact, and at the end of the night he gave me a big hug. We always have a good time together and I am very attracted to him, but am having a hard time reading him as to if he's interested in me. Can anyone help me out?

he hasn't answered his phone... ok did you leave a message???

[lyongirl]

I did, and I saw him after I left the first message and he apologized for not answering and acknowledged that he had gotten my message. I haven't seen him since the last time I called and left a message though.

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Originally Posted by lyongirl

I did, and I saw him after I left the first message and he apologized for not answering and acknowledged that he had gotten my message. I haven't seen him since the last time I called and left a message though.

Okay I hate to break it to you, but in my humble opinion....he's definitely not interested and your setting yourself up for heartbreak...

If a guy is interested he would jump at the chance to call you back...

Obviously he likes hanging out with you, but that is as far as it goes for him...

QUIT CALLING HIM HE HAS YOUR NUMBER NOW LET HIM DO THE CALLING

HE IS NOT INTERESTED SO...

YOUR BEST BET IS TO FORGET HE IS ON THIS PLANET AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...
FIND A GUY WHO WILL CALL YOU AND ONE WHO GIVES A DAMN...

AND I ONLY WISH I KNEW WHY THE WORLD SUCKS SOMETIMES

[lyongirl]

Just asking a measure of politeness here, but that could have been said without using all caps.

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Originally Posted by lyongirl

Just asking a measure of politeness here, but that could have been said without using all caps.

Sure...I just figured that you probably know the answer to your question and was saying that in a protective way...
For some reason I feel for you and don't want you to get hurt...
Which by the sounds of it you are hurting already
I was trying to emphasize those points
but dude don't take me too seriously
when I said in my humble opinion I meant I could be wrong...seriously
Take care of yourself, love yourself, and don't bother putting up with any crap from guys