[thelions]

im 19 and im really shy and i like this grl & shes 15. i see her on a regular basis but in like a grp with other ppl too. the only things i say to her is like "hi whats up" and for the rest of the time i dont say much to her at all... i cant really start a conversation with her... idk what to say & i kno theres an age diff but im not a creep i just hhave a bad crush on her. it wood be nice to have sum 1on 1 time w/ her and im on her parents good side. i pretty recently stareted to actuyally open my moutth & talk to girls & ive been on dates w/ 2 diff girls in the last 2 months but i jst really like this grl thats 15 and i want to go out w/ her. plain and simply i jst want to actually keep a conversation going w/ her and i dont know how and i want her to like me. ive known her for a yr know and i see her a lot but i jst dont speak to her other than saying hi to her. and im not a desperate creepo that preys on yung grls i jst have a bad crush on her. Please any suggestions on what i should do

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Originally Posted by thelions

im 19 and im really shy and i like this grl & shes 15. i see her on a regular basis but in like a grp with other ppl too. the only things i say to her is like "hi whats up" and for the rest of the time i dont say much to her at all... i cant really start a conversation with her... idk what to say & i kno theres an age diff but im not a creep i just hhave a bad crush on her. it wood be nice to have sum 1on 1 time w/ her and im on her parents good side. i pretty recently stareted to actuyally open my moutth & talk to girls & ive been on dates w/ 2 diff girls in the last 2 months but i jst really like this grl thats 15 and i want to go out w/ her. plain and simply i jst want to actually keep a conversation going w/ her and i dont know how and i want her to like me. ive known her for a yr know and i see her a lot but i jst dont speak to her other than saying hi to her. and im not a desperate creepo that preys on yung grls i jst have a bad crush on her. Please any suggestions on what i should do

Dude you already know this is a BAD idea because she is too young and you would be considered in a position of power because of your age...

How do you talk to girls....
Make an effort
Don't just say hi
Say Hi how's it going?
Did you hear about...
YOu know make conversation...

GO ON DATES WITH GIRLS YOUR OWN AGE TO AVOID A BAD (HORRIBLE) SITUATION...
Like the 2 dates you've been on ask those girls on another date or keep dating... forget about her for another 3 years then talk to me (lol)

[whichwayisup]

You're 19, she's 15. Please let go of your crush and move on. She's TOO young. You're nearly 20 and she's still a YOUNG teen and has alot of growing up to do.

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Originally Posted by whichwayisup

You're 19, she's 15. Please let go of your crush and move on. She's TOO young. You're nearly 20 and she's still a YOUNG teen and has alot of growing up to do.

I agree with whichwayisup... if you really care about her...let her grow up