[Fimmy]

..confused.. Ok, in a nutshell, im very confused bout what to do with my situation, my bf seems to be quite over protective, not in a telling me what to wear and who i can see way..example...he seems to think hes always right and if i try to assert myself to get what i wanted, not in a selfish way, he gets all moody and thinks im pestering him to get what i want!?

Like i want to borrow his webcam so i can take pics n stuff when im bored at home and i can put em up online straight away rather than take them on my phone and having to wait for him to put em up and send em to me me etc, his first response is, well you gota cam fone etc why do u want the webcam theyre smaller pictures and not as good, i explain that i can adjust the size and i just want it for something to do, not seedy pics just pics?!
He takes this as pestering him as i asked a few times, he also dosnt know where the webcam is but he kept giving me the impression that he didnt want me to borrow it.

Another example, when i stay at his and hes going to bed, he'll say are you coming..,sometimes ill say no im stayin up to watch this prog and he'll respond with...oh and a sigh and a huff sometimes he'll ask me again sometimes i end up going to bed cos i cant stand the guilt of it..and others i stay up cos its what i would like to do.
When i go to bed early there he stays up n goes on the computer and i dont say a thing to him cos i dont mind.

One more for good measure, heh, hes very moody sometimes and if i try to put my point across bout something he wont listen to me.. makes me feel like i can say or do anythin for myself really.

Now in his favour, he is nice bf he will do anythin for me, i suffer with depression etc and i think he does to be honest.. just things are now quite strained and i duno what to do. We've been goin out almost 2 years now.
I cant help but think he expects too much from me in the way that hes very affectionate and huggy and im not 'as' as he is. Ugh i just duno.

Any help would be good as im really confused.

[Hydro]

I was in a similar relationship with my ex and it put an incredible strain on the relationship from her end. She would make me feel bad about myself all the time and when we had arguments she refused to let me leave the room when I felt it was getting nowhere. I have no advice for you but I do hope you can reslove this if you still love him. My ex pushed me away to the point wehre I no longer felt anything for her.

[Fimmy]

hey thanq for the reply.. um well things have gotten odder..again a nutshell...

we were in asda today i needed some sunglasses n i love the big style..as in BIG glasses, nicole ritchie style..he hates them and all the while i was lookin at them and considerin buying them (cos my last pair got stood on) he was saying theyre horrible...theyll hide all ur face...i dont like them...and then finally..youll look like a freak...
what?!....why would someone who is sopposed to love me tryin so hard to make me change my mind bout what I want to buy. I still brought them though cos i really like them.

He also did this in primark a few weeks bak over a top i brought he hated it kept sayin how grose it was and its really horrible i still brought it and i still wear n love it....he even tried to bribe me with getting kfc with the rest of my money instead of gettin this top..which annoyed me...it was like he was willing to fall out with me cos i wanted to make up my own mind about something he didnt like?!

So now basically i think ive had enough....i mean hes a decent guy he does anythin or me etc...but these things that keep happenin recenty are really freakin me out...and well i cant help but think weve ran our course...its gona break his heart but i cant stay with someone who i dont think i love anymore...:0(