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Old 4th July 2008, 10:38 PM   #1
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am i being jelous or realistic?

ex girl and i broke up six to eight months ago...we were together for almost six years..we had our problems so we broke up...after a couple months she pretty much begged me to be with her and i said **** u...lol anyway after some time she got with this guy and got married and is pregnant now...and honestly i was the first to know all this becaues she would littlerally just jam it down my throat...now i know im not being jealous but maybe i am subconsciously and by that i mean i feel that what she does is her business but marrying some guy and getting knocked up with in a few months of knowing someone...i just think its dumb and irresponsible but i dont know maybe its the cool thing now lol anyway holla back and let me know...
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Old 4th July 2008, 10:44 PM   #2
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Your caring shows that you are still attached to this woman and she has moved on..... some people take years to figure out that they are right/wrong for each other and others take minutes/months. Maybe she found what she is looking for and they gave her what she wanted.

She moved on and I think you should, too.
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Old 4th July 2008, 11:06 PM   #3
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we had our problems so we broke up...after a couple months she pretty much begged me to be with her and i said **** u.
Why the bleep didn't you go No Contact after saying " **** u" ??
Why did you allow her to be any part of your life after that ? Cut her off NOW.. She is a drama queen who is now controlling you by provoking you with all the crappy developments of her new life. Who cares if she is having triplets. They are not yours. She has had sex with another man -that means NO Contact - ever.
She is tossing drama at you to try to rattle your cage - it is what some women do who are a fan of "getting even" with a guy who dumped her.
Women operate in the emotional, men in the physical and the intellectual.

Dude, the way to win is not to play. She is loving your reactions. Give her none.
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