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Old 4th July 2008, 6:58 AM   #1
pickingupthepieces
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Ok So I've had a couple of drinks....

Ok I'm an idiot I was all for NC and I don't know what happened. I honestly think I am the weakest person.. SERIOUSLY...

So my X thought I was seeing someone else... He was so SAD because he thought I never wanted to talk to him again. I had misdirected some texts (not on purpose) mentioning that we (not him someone else) should get together to finish watching a movie.. Anyways he dropped the last thing off yesterday morning.. woke me up with a kiss, it was nice. So he says something about coming over on his lunch.. but I coudln't I had an appointment. I called him later that night.. and there was no answer. SO I messaged him on fb. We talked abit and ended with the usual. I tried to msg him tonight and got no response.. I tried numerous times. I called BOTH phones. His cell just beeped in my ear...(which happens when you press "ignore" on your phone) and his home phone just didn't go through. So I continued to msg him with no response.

He told me he thought I didn't want to talk to him ever again since I sent that text. I told him no that was never my intentions. And now he won't talk to me WTF is up with that? I need another drink.. **** this.
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Old 4th July 2008, 7:16 AM   #2
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You need to sit down and talk, face to face, not on the phone or by text/email.

Straighten things out, one way or another. If you want to get back together, or he does, it needs to be out in the open.

Communication is a huge thing in a relationship and so many relationship breakups are down to lack of it.

How long have you been apart for?
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