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Old 4th July 2008, 12:35 AM   #1
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F*** Holidays

Anyone else bumming that it's the Fourth of July and you and your ex won't be spending it together?

I know, I'm supposed to be positive, but I try to do so much goddamn cheering up on this site that I deserve a little bitching. F*ck the 4th, and F*ck you, Ex!
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Old 4th July 2008, 12:45 AM   #2
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Kiz you are in my head man, I just posted a blog on myspace about the same **** about an hour ago! **** ya they suck, and to think I have Halloween, Labor day, thanksgiving, xmas, new years, and then the dreaded ****ing valentines day, to get through before I will have no recent memories of the holiday's we spent together.

I'm with you **** the holiday's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 4th July 2008, 12:51 AM   #3
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Positive note: Halloween is like 4 months away. Think about how much recovery we'll have done by then! I'll be six months out of the R!

And honestly, I'll prob. have someone new by then, or at least a cute date!
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Old 4th July 2008, 1:11 AM   #4
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I hate all holidays alone... it is just a reminder of how lonely you feel...sucks
Christmas is the worst!!!
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Old 4th July 2008, 2:37 AM   #5
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yeah its the day me any my ex made it together what would have been 4 yrs together. oh and its my bday
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Old 4th July 2008, 4:17 AM   #6
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any holiday sucks when your alone..
im planning on spending christmas away with the kids.. butlins or something.
The kids said to me just few days ago.. who is going give out the presents this christmas.. normally kriss does?

made me feel very sad.. i said will i do?
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Old 4th July 2008, 10:05 AM   #7
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i dont think i've ever spent it with him, hes always spent it with his mom... and last year around this time we were broken up... and we're broken up again.

man i wish i could disappear into nothingness right now. holidays, AND the weekends make me feel like ****...
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Old 4th July 2008, 11:39 AM   #8
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I hate this day so much already. All I can think about is 2 years ago when I was with her in denver. I flew out to see her. I remember everythin like it was yesterday. now I'm at work today but on L's on my blackberry typing this. All I can envision is her with the new person. I don't get how she moved on so fast after 6 years. Guess ill have a beer now.
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Old 4th July 2008, 11:55 AM   #9
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Yes! I hate three day weekends now.
I've been dreading this all week
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Old 4th July 2008, 12:26 PM   #10
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I think what I hate is having to hear OTHER people banter on about all the great plans they have with their girl/boyfriends.
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Old 4th July 2008, 3:16 PM   #11
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im trying really hard not to hate this whole ****in month- because at this exact time last year is when my ex left me, i tried to kill myself and such ohhh how i used to love july 4th and its my bday this month to - so i feel you i feel it -im gonna really try have fun tonite go out with some friends get drunk or not get drunk whatever just try not to let her,him,them ruin it for you then you give them the power- i say eff up the b-that mother ****er could have at least waited untill august to do all this crap
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