[Ohio14inter]

Hello,

I am currently in college and have been dating a woman for 3 years that I love very much. We broke up once for a few months and it was a horrible feeling, but now we've been back together for a significant period of time. We're home for the Summer now and I am unable to see her very often. I feel that I have become very much dependent on her and miss her 24 hours a day. My question is: How do I become happy with myself and with my relationship? I want to stay in love with this girl, but I don't want to feel like she is my life. I'm starting to look at the negatives of my relationship more than the positives and I think it's because I'm not very independent and unhappy with myself. My self-esteem has always been pretty low, and I don't want it to be anymore. Can someone help me?