[claycald]

i contacted my ex (we were together for 2 years) 3 months ago and have been speaking sense. at first she wanted to talk on the phone, i said it wasnt a good idea yet. also at first she was weary of that as long as seeing me in person. a month later i ran into her parents at a restraunt (she showed up a few minutes later) she got upset when she found out a week later i was there and she didnt get to talk to me. she then invited me to her graduation and has said she does want to meet up with me some time this summer when she gets back in the country. she has also said she just wants to be friends and she does have a boyfriend. she has been with him for 8 months now... what does all this mean?

do u believe she truely does just wants to be friends or is she thinking about coming back to me? im completly cool with either scenario.

i find it rather crazy since she is risking so much allowing me back into her life. she is risking her relationship with her boyfriend and she is disobeying her parents.

[Nevermind]

How is she disobeying her parents? Could you explain?

From what I read, I think she wants friendship. This wouldn't endanger her relationship with the boyfriend at all, as long as she is honest about it.

[Peter_pan]

she wants friendship. she has a BF.

its up to you if your happy to be a friend knowing she is screwing the new guy....

[claycald]

her parents totally and completly hate me. they do not want her speaking to me. before i went NC i had asked her if i could take her out for her birthday as friends she said okay but her parents said no...

what would u do if ur boyfriend or girlfriend started speaking to an ex (who was her first boyfriend, love etc.) when they were together for two years? what would you do if they agreed to go out with the ex. you wouldnt be to happy.

but then again she has said "i hope this means we can be friends now" and "they think you are 'after me' again". but for some reason when i speak to people about this who are NOT on loveshack i get more of a maybe she wants you back while on here EVERYONE says run for the hills.

hard to figure **** out when ur asking two completly different outlooks.

[TrustInYourself]

What?

Why would her parents hate you? What is their justification?

I have no clue what you are asking. What makes you think she's interested? Your friends have no clue. They are probably like you. Young with no hair on the balls.

[claycald]

idk why they hate me they just do. i ran into her and her family two months ago and they didnt say one word to me and kept the fact that i was their away from their daughter. the fact that when my ex invited me to her graduation (my sister also graduated) and i went up to her her dad getting pissed off is clear enough they do not like me. and the fact that i did not live up to their expectations and how her dad treated me while i was with her tells me he did not like me. everytime me and him were alone together he wouldnt speak to me or would grille me on school or something else. my ex wanted to introduce me to her extended family multiple times and tried to get her parents to let me go with them to a family get together, her dad always said no.

idk if she is interested in me. she might have some remote feelings toward me. she has choose to let me back in her life even though her boyfriend would get mad. i know i would be upset if my girl started talking to her ex again. like for what reason do they want each other as friends or does he really mean that much to her that after all that has happened between them she forgives him and lets him back in her life?

oh and i dont talk to males about this ****... i talk to females who some are lesbian, married or know my ex. so id hope they dont have hair on their girl balls... sicko