[ricardotorero]

Hi
It is 10 weeks since I learnt of my partners affair. I was aware that there was emotional involvement some weeks prior to discovering it had been physical on 2 occasions. Her affair lasted about 3 months and finished 4 months prior to me finding out.

I have read and acted on advice, and she has done all that she can over the past weeks to reassure me and I have no doubt that she loves me. However I am concerned that I should not be at this stage of recovery, where I feel reasonable confident of the future and feel I have come to terms with both her actions and my role in the relationship prior to her affair, after only 10 weeks. I know everyone is different and average recovery doesn't mean anything, I'm just a little concerned that it is too soon.
Any advice or personal perspectives?