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you can't force a man to marry you- if marriage is what you want and he has made it clear to you that he does not i suggest you a) go to couples counciling to find out the real issue here; is he a commitment phobe or he wants to stay available? b) break it off and stay good friends c) deal with it find a way to finally realize that hey yall aren't getting hitched!
i would go with choice A -- both of you would get an insite on eachothers POV
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Marriage hath in it less of beauty but more of safety, than the single life; it hath more care, but less danger, it is more merry, and more sad; it is fuller of sorrows, and fuller of joys; it lies under more burdens, but it is supported by all the strengths of love and charity, and those burdens are delightful.-Bishop Jeremy Taylor
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