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Old 8th June 2008, 6:20 AM   #1
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Mixed signals!

So I'm dating this guy. We dated for about 3 months and then I broke it off with him because of communication problems. Everything else was perfect at the time but it broke out in a bad way one night and I ended things. But before then, whenever we would go out, we would have the best time of our lives and he'd say to me sweet things such as "I'm only like this around you." or "I think I'm falling for you." I felt like there was so much between us. But when I broke things off with him, he started seeing someone else almost immediately. Then after 2 months we hung out and started seeing each other again. So now we're seeing each other and the last time we hung out, I told him he was more open than I remembered and he replied to me the same as what he told me before, "I'm only like this around you. I'm definitely not like this with just anyone." But communication problem still arises. It's been 3 weeks since we've hung out and 2 weeks since he's called or text me. What does this mean? He said he's really busy with a lot of the film projects and work, and finals was just this past week. We don't go to the same college so I barely get to see him and we haven't even talked or text for 2 weeks. We're both not very phone people so we always prefer texting. But could he just be trying to show that he has a life by not texting me or is he really that busy? What could this all mean? And like all girls, I just don't want to be played as well. I need your opinions! A lot of my guy friends say I'm a catch and that there's a lot going for me. Some even said I could do better, and I don't know why this guy isn't as into me as other guys I've dated in the past! Could it be insecurity issues? Should I be wasting my time?

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Old 8th June 2008, 7:20 AM   #2
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what communication issues do you have?

i would say dont listen what other people or friends tell you because they are telling you things just to make you feel good and they dont know anything about him except you. But if he is being too busy for you that just means you are not his priority right now. So dont put him as your priority as well...
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Old 8th June 2008, 7:44 AM   #3
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Communication issues to me is just not getting in contact with him enough. We would go for a week or two without talking or anything with each other.
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Old 8th June 2008, 8:32 AM   #4
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Sorry to say but if i had the same problem then i d assume hes not into me...
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Old 8th June 2008, 1:27 PM   #5
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Communication issues to me is just not getting in contact with him enough. We would go for a week or two without talking or anything with each other.
Sounds like casual dating. Did you have an exclusivity "talk"?

Did you ever plainly tell him face to face that you'd like him to call/text you more often, even just if a short discourse, since that helps you feel connected (I presume)? These sort of things are better done face to face, IMO.
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Old 8th June 2008, 5:35 PM   #6
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Sounds like casual dating. Did you have an exclusivity "talk"?

Did you ever plainly tell him face to face that you'd like him to call/text you more often, even just if a short discourse, since that helps you feel connected (I presume)? These sort of things are better done face to face, IMO.
If you were dating for more than 3 months i would expect to hear from a guy at most in three days but not weeks. But ye try to talk to him.
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