I understand everything your going thru OmarE, im going through the exact same thing.
But as far as you said, you did nothing wrong, it was all her, and im going thru that, i did nothing and for somereason it gets turned around on me like i did something wrong.
Shes threatening not to talk to me like i did her wrong. But i really dont want my ex back at all. I know that i am better than that, and i feel that i deserve better.
Well my friend, I don't know what exactly your going through and its not about "deserving better" or anything like that but she is trying it have it her way, she knows you do not want her to cut off communication so thats what she is threating you with. Right now, it appears that she is in control.
If you want to regain some sort of control to allow your mind to move on faster,
you be the one to CUT all contact mentally, don't tell her, just do it
Last edited by Johnson25; 28th May 2008 at 12:34 PM.
oh lol, then i guess I should say.
Yeah man, chicks are crazy creatures, I don't know whats on their brain sometimes, on that same note, I was told by a female that. Girls are thought to blame the man for everything form a very young age, maybe as they get older & wiser & mature, they start to take responsibility for their actions.
then again, i did lots of things wrong, after the break-up i really had to sit down and analyze myself. All I can say is, I won't let that happen again in my next relationship.
Last edited by Johnson25; 28th May 2008 at 12:49 PM.
It's a sad occurence that men do hurt women over cheating and affairs.
All I'm doing is pointing that out. Why you gotta deny what could happen by trying to erase what I said?
WTF?
That's a typical reaction from most women, they want to live in a fairy tale land, where everything is perfect. However, God forbid that real life comes to light. Typical Fema-Nazism.
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That's a typical reaction from most women, they want to live in a fairy tale land, where everything is perfect. However, God forbid that real life comes to light. Typical Fema-Nazism.
I know right and she tried to blame me for saying it's okay for a man to do it, she was crazy. I dont condone violence in terms of cheating. But some men and women do resort to physical attacks when they cant deal with it.
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I agree with you on these points. However, women who are out cheating on their husbands more often than not end up getting abused in one form or another, that includes getting beat up.
In some sick sense, the saying is very true, "what goes around, comes around."
Sometimes the one/s who don't do anything wrong, still get the short end of the stick.
I thought I would just update you guys on the progress.
I noticed the feeling is near dead or dulling. Its gone now, except in the morning when I awake, I am usually thinking about her. At night as well.
I notice that the more female companions I have around me, wheater it be us sleeping together or just hanging out, it seems to dull the love I once had for my ex.
I'm not sure, but feelings are now fading. It took about 64 days of NC n 3 rebounds + talking to friends & family, getting two new hobbies, reconnecting with old friends, constantly talking about the situation, a journal to jot down my thoughts, excerise, rebuilding social life, going out to bars/longues n most importantly female companions to spend the night.
had it not been for the rebounds n excerise, i might of slipped into depression.
Last edited by Johnson25; 4th June 2008 at 3:41 PM.
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