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Forget the marriage counseling, forget "fixing the marriage", forget everything here. You are married to a man with terrible character, and this will not change. The MC will prod and poke at this and that issue, and he'll be back to his old self in no time.
What gets me is not just the 15 year-old Lolita part, but his utter, continued disrespect for you, his wife. If the other woman in question were 33 years old I would still be put off by this story. He just does not give a flying rat's a-- what you are feeling, what you think, and you called his bluff on this weeks ago. He is only agreeing to agree with you to do things (MC, etc) because he has been caught. This does not appear to have been an effort out of free will.
Why not leave? You have no children I gather. How could you stand to be in a room with him, let alone a marriage, a day more? If it is because you are "scared" or insecure about being alone again, well, he must know that about you because he is taking full advantage of it.
Let him prove himself to you. The best chance you have is to go away and stay away and let him do some hard and fast thinking. He will not do that now, as he has no incentive to. You are there, tolerating it all on some level.
xoxo
OE
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The Immortals are Swift to the Mortals Who Perservere--Aristophanes
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