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How does someone cheat 30 days before moving out to be with the person of their dreams? Not only that, but have no legitiate reasons as to why they cheated?
How does someone cheat 30 days before moving out to be with the person of their dreams? Not only that, but have no legitiate reasons as to why they cheated?
I agree.
However, her bf needs to not concentrate on "why" she cheated and realize that all that matters is she DID cheat. And if he can't trust her while they are apart, then why would he want her even when they are together?
you just dont understand all the dynamics of this all...
im really not a bad person, but I admit I do have issues that me and my boyfriend are currently working through...he trust me, just not to lie
To be completely honest... I would guess that your BF doesn't really trust you right now. From a guy perspective, he would be a total idiot if he did.
It also sounds like he is going to keep you at arms length and date around for a while. That would be the top reason I would avoid any kind of relationship status with you. That way I could do what I want and it wouldn't be cheating. Chances are he is thinking the same thing.
hi there people,
has nobody noticed how young this girl is, she is marriage material just not a year after her PROM.
Some were harsh on her and nobody saw the immaturity "I open my legs" come on people this is just a child who did a stupid thing. At 18 we were all kids and she thinks she has history with a guy she went out with for a year. Yeap i am sure you did but real life is very different by no means should she be judged for her immature behaviour for the rest of her adult life.
ANIMALISTIC Oh god girlie wait till you hit your 30's then you will understand animalistic.
hi there people,
has nobody noticed how young this girl is, she is marriage material just not a year after her PROM.
Some were harsh on her and nobody saw the immaturity "I open my legs" come on people this is just a child who did a stupid thing. At 18 we were all kids and she thinks she has history with a guy she went out with for a year. Yeap i am sure you did but real life is very different by no means should she be judged for her immature behaviour for the rest of her adult life.
ANIMALISTIC Oh god girlie wait till you hit your 30's then you will understand animalistic.
I understand what your saying, and I hold no ill will against skittles... in fact I really just want her to be prepared for what may come next.
However, I was 18 not too long ago, and I don't think that is an excuse to hurt other people. I think you would have a completely different opinion if this was a guy!
I don't support some of the crude language and mean things several of the posters have said and used. However, I also do not think that your rationalizing is helpful either.
How does someone cheat 30 days before moving out to be with the person of their dreams? Not only that, but have no legitiate reasons as to why they cheated?
I am def. not trying to rag on you either skittles, but I do wonder about what Javelin said. I mean 30 days before moving in together... in a 16 month relationship.
Can you really say this was the first time you cheated on him?
I've cheated on before..during the first 6mths of our relationship I did some things with other guys but it took those first 6mths for me to realize that I do truly love him and I owned up to all those things.
I've cheated on before..during the first 6mths of our relationship I did some things with other guys but it took those first 6mths for me to realize that I do truly love him and I owned up to all those things.
Skittles,
You have to realize that sometimes your dealing with a humpty dumpty situation. Just be prepared if he doesn't want you as a serious GF in the future.
Also... I get the impression that you think it's Ok to cheat if your not in love? This is a great opportunity for you to learn, and one of the things you should take away from this is that cheating has nothing to do with love. Love won't keep you from cheating... and not having love isn't an excuse to cheat. It's about honesty, and who you are as a person.
What do you think, that you have learned from this?
I've cheated on before..during the first 6mths of our relationship I did some things with other guys but it took those first 6mths for me to realize that I do truly love him and I owned up to all those things.
See Skittles,
Your BF has more tolerance than me. I may have forgiven you the first time. And that's a big MAYBE. But to do it again? I would have been out the door. That's simply disrespectful and using someone as a doormat.
i didn't have sex with the other guys from the first six months and the fact is he did say that was the only time he would give me a second chance and i really thought it was...i had to beg and beg for him to take me back
i dont love easily and i push away alot in a relationship so yeah its not an excuse but i have alot of hidden issues that truly do play into this all
about two months and i will be moving out there, maybe one month but nonetheless we are both wanting me out there so badly, i think the guy i cheated on him with though is going to commit suicide when i move out there, at least thats what he says
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