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Jade, my sister is clean. It took her four long years too. She did it simply by staying away from the wrong people, not going back to her old friends and habits, sheer strength of will (which I truly admire her for) and having a focus on something else. She used methadone for around 3 years I think. Aside from that she stayed away from counselling and clinics - even the drug counsellors who had previously been there before were too much of a temptation to her. She literally cut herself off from the lifestyle and I'm immensely proud of her. She now has a 2 year old son who she dotes on and a partner who worships the ground she walks on. She's a stay-at-home-mom until her little one goes to school after which she plans to go back to college to finish what she started there.
You can do it. One thing I would say my sister had was faith, in herself, that she could do it and she had it within her to take control of her own life, at first it was hard for her - but she stuck with it. She also didn't ask for help from her family or friends, she did it alone and came out on top. I know this isn't the way for everyone, but now she says she couldn't have done it any other way.
(by the way, I'm just repeating here how she told her journey, this isn't what I actually think because I have no experience of it myself)
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