[MalachiX]

I've tried before and hasn't worked. I'm 24 now and, aside from the loss of energy, I realize that much longer of this is going to garuntee I get lung cancer (which would be bad). I was doing allright but then went through a painful break up and am generally quite unhappy in my life (career is in the crapper, in a city without many friends, money is tight). I think perhaps quitting smoking would be a good first step to getting out of my funk but it ain't happening. Any ideas?

[Enema]

Every time you are about to have a cigarette. Don't.

When do I get my dollar?

[curiousnycgirl]

You need Chantix (prescription medication) and huge willpower. Chantix got me to quit - but I still want to smoke many times every single day! I just don't do it.

You may keep your dollar and good luck!

[ShoeGirl]

If you are in the US call 1-800-QuitNow. If you have health insurance it might cover the costs of the program. They coach you, send you supplies (patches, gum, Chantix, etc.). You can also look into programs that may be sponsored by a state funded hospital in your area. Many hospitals will provide a free or close to free program for anyone who has been seen at that hospital.

[KMT]

hmm quiting is going to be hard, especialy because you have so much percieved stress. You should hypnotize yourself.

[e.clipse]

why would you want to quit smoking?

[j_hunt_12]

I don't know but I'm stopping too... nothing since friday... peace

[Woggle]

Why not try weening yourself off of it gradually. Smoke one less a day until you eventually are down to none.

[sandflea]

Here's how I did it:

First off - it sucks, we all know that. You have to go out with your friends on a bar night. Everyone will be smoking around you. Bring gum.

When you feel the urge, ask the bartender for a glass of water. Go outside, take a few deep breaths, and drink some water. Then, go back in the bar and keep partying. When in doubt, chew your gum.

When you wake up the next morning you will have completed your first day - cold turkey. Yes - it's a trial by fire, but if you're like me, you really REALLY want a smoke with a beer.

I'd say go cold turkey. You'll find that after just one day cigarettes taste horrible.

Best of luck. YOU CAN DO IT!

[Phateless]

Originally Posted by MalachiX

I've tried before and hasn't worked. I'm 24 now and, aside from the loss of energy, I realize that much longer of this is going to garuntee I get lung cancer (which would be bad). I was doing allright but then went through a painful break up and am generally quite unhappy in my life (career is in the crapper, in a city without many friends, money is tight). I think perhaps quitting smoking would be a good first step to getting out of my funk but it ain't happening. Any ideas?

You control your own actions.

[MoonlightLover]

Originally Posted by MalachiX

I've tried before and hasn't worked. I'm 24 now and, aside from the loss of energy, I realize that much longer of this is going to garuntee I get lung cancer (which would be bad). I was doing allright but then went through a painful break up and am generally quite unhappy in my life (career is in the crapper, in a city without many friends, money is tight). I think perhaps quitting smoking would be a good first step to getting out of my funk but it ain't happening. Any ideas?

Make a visit to the cancer in patient wards at your local hospital. Its horrific.

I've gone almost 4 weeks now, started of with patches..didnt need them after a few days then just chewed regular chewing gum....gave in once had one smoke a week ago but that's all ive had for almost a month...pretty good.

[macon]

Quitting smoking can be incredibly difficult - it depends what kind of smoker you are. It sounds like you may be like me - I probably smoked between 20 and 30 a day since I was 14. I would say that the physical addiction meant virtually nothing - it was the psychological addiction that made it hard to quit. I mean, my entire life was divided into manageable chunks of approximately one hour each - between cigarettes - without them it was like, what do people do? What do you look forward to? And that was part of what has helped me give up - realising that if I need to keep smoking I'm saying that my life is so boring that I can't enjoy it without a cigarette. And that can't be true. This is where willpower comes in! I've been off cigrarettes for almost 5 years now - I'd say it's only the last couple that I really feel I'm no longer in imminent danger of starting again - although if I had one, I know I'd have 40 ...

Practical advice I'd give you - read that Alan Carr book about giving up smoking - it helps get your head in the right place, and that really is the most important thing. Also invest in a pack of herbal cigarettes - they aren't good for you, but they don't contain nicotine, and that's the addiction you have to break. I really don't think I'd have managed the first 6 months if I hadn't been able to light up a herbal whenever I wanted. That ritual that you are so used to is very hard to break, and with herbals you can continue to have all the other elements of smoking, while at the same time the fact that you don't get a hit off it really shows you how much or a carcinogenic drug you are pumping into your body 20 times a day. As time goes on you'll find you don't need herbals either - not that I ever smoked more than about 7 a week when I was giving up - but I kept an emergency pack in the car for about 2 years. You will feel a totally different way about smoking in a year's time - it will not be this hard forever. I seriously could not imagine I could feel the way I do now about smoking. When the addiction fades you will wake up - and you will cope with life without it - and then, like me, you'll wonder what the hell you found so hard. Seriously, you will

[slatko]

Hi, I'm 26 now. I tried quit smoking since I was 21. In 2005, I stopped it for 364 days. Then I was at a party, and totally drunk. And started smoking again.

For two years, I was on withdrawal symtoms, cause I just smoked at the weekend when I was out partying. Under the week I was able to not smoke, but had withdrawal symtoms.

A month ago, I finally decided to quit. I made the decission to do whatever it takes to stop that ****. I avoided meeting my smoking friends, and for the others I was a pain in the ass. I went crazy for two weeks.

Now I'm over the hardest time.

Here's what gave me the willpower I needed to go through the first 2-3 weeks:
I asked myself: If you can't stop that ****ing addiction, then what a weakling are you?
I compared myself to my ancestors. One of my grandfathers had survived 3 years as a soldier at WW2, and I imagined what he had to take back then.

And I, his offspring, would not be able to go trough 2-3 weeks of some withdrawal symtoms? WTF? What kind of a man would I be if these ****ing cigarettes could controll me?

(I know this sounds crazy. But it did it for me. Maybe you have to find another motivation. But in the end, in my eyes it comes down to: Are you man enough to go through these ****ing 2-3 weeks?

Oh, and btw: the book of Allen Carr helped me a lot. But the thing that really helped me, was to make the decission to do whatever it takes. No whining, just standing it through like a man)

[luvmy2ns]

Quit buying cigarettes. Where's my dollar?

[climbergirl]

To Quit: I do think it has to do with determination-I don't think you will have a successful quit if you are even slightly wishy-washy about your decision to quit. Pick a day and keep telling yourself that day is the day you quit.

To stay Quit: Instead of fearing the withdrawal symptoms, I liked them. Well, I didn't enjoy them, but chose to see them for what they were-my body's reaction to taking that drug away and how dependant I had become to smoking. The first 2 1/2 days I couldn't even get out of bed because I was faint, dizzy and had a horrible headache. I'll never forget that and never want to.

Keep busy. Keep your hands busy and your body busy. I think boredom is a huge trigger along with alcohol, hanging out with smokers and eating heavy foods. I say avoid all for a month if you can.

But, IMO, the biggest motivator to staying quit is exercise. About a month ago I decided to start a new, healthier chapter of my life which started with quitting smoking. My attitude and confidence has done a 180 since then. I've met some really cool people and joined an awesome outdoor group which never would have happened if I stayed smoking. I know this sounds cheesy, but I feel like I have lived in a cave and quitting has brought me back into the real world again.

I hope I said something that may have helped.

Good luck and good vibes to you!