Whether the connection made with you prior to sex was purely sexual, combined with his other available options of women to be with, and his original intent, which he may or may not have masked.
so a guy wouldnt hook up with a girl repeatedly if he were only sexually interested in her?
Yes he would. The simple answer is what determines if a guy decides if a hook up is a ONS or a budding relation, assuming a guy is even open to a relationship whatsoever, is essentially dependent on if the girl is relationship material. No amount of hard to get or other tactics is really going to change that. Only being relationship material and picking the right guy will.
Yes he would. The simple answer is what determines if a guy decides if a hook up is a ONS or a budding relation, assuming a guy is even open to a relationship whatsoever, is essentially dependent on if the girl is relationship material. No amount of hard to get or other tactics is really going to change that. Only being relationship material and picking the right guy will.
oooh now it all makes sense...
\haha
and what exactly makes a girl relationship material?
Ok, so is an "independent, non-clingy I don't expect anything from you just because we hooked up but I will still be friendly and mature and see where it goes'" attitude a good one?
Ok, so is an "independent, non-clingy I don't expect anything from you just because we hooked up but I will still be friendly and mature and see where it goes'" attitude a good one?
Yes and if that doesn't work you need to find another guy.
One time and multiple hookups, are all about sex and not much more, although the multiple hookups have a very small chance of becoming something more. Neither is optimum, if you're looking for a relationship. Better to move on and find yourself relationship material, than trying to hold someone using sex, as the weapon. When you're a hookup, there isn't much respect involved.
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