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Old 29th March 2008, 1:50 PM   #1
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Is hatred a sin?

Self explanatory.
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Old 29th March 2008, 9:57 PM   #2
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Do you have any opinions of your own, andy?

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Old 29th March 2008, 10:02 PM   #3
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A 'sin' ..what is a SIN.. what defines a sin?

Since I am not a religious person.. hatred is not a sin.
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Old 29th March 2008, 10:14 PM   #4
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Though hatred is not a sin if it's controlled, it takes a heavy toll on the body and internal organs of the person harboring the hatred. The damage it can do over time can be fatal. Perhaps if you look at it that way, hate is a sin against the hater.
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Old 29th March 2008, 10:18 PM   #5
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Hatred is not a sin. It's something if properly focused and harnessed, can be quite a powerful tool. If allowed to run rampant, it's a useless waste of emotion and energy.
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Old 29th March 2008, 11:41 PM   #6
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hatred is a sin

Galatians
The works of the Flesh
5:16 Live by the Spirit, I say, and do not gratify the desires of the flesh.
5:17 For what the flesh desires is opposed to the Spirit, and what the Spirit desires is opposed to the flesh; for these are opposed to each other, to prevent you from doing what you want.
5:18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not subject to the law.
5:19 Now the works of the flesh are obvious: fornication, impurity, licentiousness,
5:20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, anger, qaurrels, dissensions, factions,
5:21 envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these. I am warning you, as I warned you before: those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God


somewhere in Bible it says 'be anger but do not sin'. Anger sometimes it is nature feeling, but we should control it and don't let our anger hurt others and self. If we have hatred toward others, we should ask God to forgive us, and give us more understanding and strength to overcome it. When you practice 'pray for your enemy', it will become easier. I can tell you that I failed many times, my favorate prayer is "God, I tried, and I failed, I cannot love that person, she is just so irritating and unlovable, help me to understand and give your supernatural power to me so I can do right thing." or "I am on my dead end of wit, help me". My first prayer for my enemy is "God, please break her pride" (I think this is a good thing to break someone's pride)

When we have hatred in us, Holy Spirit won't be comfortable with these negative feelings, He will guide you to more understanding, and warn you that focus on those negative feelings aren't good. The more you are obedient to God, the more you will be sensitive to his Holy Spirit

"in quietness and in trust you will be strengthened". Many of our anxeity and fear and negative thoughts are born from lack of faith in God. Suppose we are trust in God 100% for everything, we won't worry and fret a thing. such as one person did something hurt you, if you trust in God, then you know there is a purpose here, just we cannot know what exactly the purpose is. but later you will know and appreciate even your enemy. for through them you grow into God a little more, you learn to trust in God a little more. you learn to be more like Lord a little more. your enemy meant harm, but God means good. your enemy just contribute your good future a little more.

God just gave me a lesson recently: don't focus on negative thoughts. I mean I KNOW this, but I didn't really GET this. Our thought can make our future
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Old 1st June 2008, 12:00 PM   #7
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Hatred may be a sin

When I read the question my first thought was "yes it's a sin." Then I started thinking about how an emotion out of our control could be considered a "sin" when we are not CHOOSING to feel that way. I'm sure that if given the choice everyone would choose to be rid of jealousy, envy, hatred, etc. I hate 1 person in this world and I have no idea how to get rid of the hatred. I have tried and tried to let it go but I just can't. I don't know if you could consider an emotion you can't control a sin, but I definitely don't think it's right or a good thing to actually hate a person. It definitely takes its toll on the person harboring the negative feelings.
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Old 1st June 2008, 6:45 PM   #8
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Yes, hatred is a sin. Jesus loved all of us enough to go to the cross for us, so how do we have the right to hate a person. I must admit there are about 4 people that I am dealing with the thought that I "might" hate them.
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Old 1st June 2008, 7:13 PM   #9
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No...

Ecclesiastes 3:1 To every thing there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
Ecclesiastes 3:8 A time to love, and a time to hate: a time of war, and a time of peace.
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Old 4th June 2008, 9:04 AM   #10
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I must admit there are about 4 people that I am dealing with the thought that I "might" hate them.
Am I one of them?

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Old 4th June 2008, 2:03 PM   #11
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Is hatred a sin.....?

Depends on what it is, that's causing the hatred....

God hates divorce, Jesus expressed hatred with the peddlers in His Father's House....

It's all about your heart attitude....do you harbor it? Do you allow it to control your feelings? Do you bother to try to find resolve?

With Christ in your heart, there simply isn't room to keep hatred inside....
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Old 4th June 2008, 3:31 PM   #12
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if you subscribe to the thought that sin = anything that gets in the way of your relationship with God, then yeah, hate is a sin because it defies his commandment to love him and to love one another.

interestingly enough, though a believer can profess hatred harmful to relationships with others, it's really himself that's getting the bad end of the deal. Because even though you may hate someone whole-heartedly, you're not really hurting that person – he can turn you off in his mind – but you hurt yourself because of all the energy you expend on keeping the emotion alive.

then there's the thought that DNR brought up: Hate the sin, love the sinner. Hate as in reject, turn away from, do not embrace said ideal, yet love the person practicing the sin.
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Old 4th June 2008, 3:43 PM   #13
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Self explanatory.
Not if you're muslim. I'm serious, and no offence to anyone (hint hint mr moderator before you send me a warning).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IArmMRznRzo
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Old 4th June 2008, 3:45 PM   #14
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Hatred is not a sin. It's something if properly focused and harnessed, can be quite a powerful tool. If allowed to run rampant, it's a useless waste of emotion and energy.
According to what religion? Jesus said to love your enemy. I'm not saying I do, but just saying..
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Old 4th June 2008, 3:53 PM   #15
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Jesus said to love your enemy.
And just what do you think He meant by this?

Personally, I believe He meant that your enemy is you.....yourself.

In other words, there is no difference between yourself and your enemy. We were all created by God in His image. We are all equal to one another.

No difference between jew or gentile, educated or not, one race vs another....
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