[mas21]

So i am writing this to maybe better understand something i am not quite sure of. Here is some background. I lived with a girl well call Anna freshmen yr and we both became close friends with this girl well call Jen. So jen started liking this girls boyfriend, well call Sarah and the boyfriend mike. Jen became very close to sarah, best friends i guess you could say, but also was backstabbing her and sleeping with her boyfriend mike. After all of this Jen and Sarah still became good friends and Sarah took make mike at one time but dumped him later. Keep in mind this is the guy she thought she would marry. Now 2 years after that drama, i live with Anna, Jen and sarah in a apartment and we have lived there for 2 years. So I do not quite understand those 2 girls relationships. Sarah tried to get back at Jen at one time by sleeping with a guy she was interested in. They both sleep around quite a bit. Meanwhile me and anna always thought sarah was gonna kill all of us one day and snap because we all knew about it but did not want to get involved and were not that close with her in the beginning. Now living with Sarah she always talks **** about Jen and acts completely different to her face. She is like i do not want to live with her next year and Jen does not want ot live with sarah but they both are moving into a 2 bedroom apartment in apr. This i do not understand. They are both the most irresponsible girls i have ever met, they dont pay bills and rent on time and they are extremely messy. I am moving back home so a part of me wants to see this trainwreak and what amounts of it. But also Sarah is very manipulative, she always tells Jen that people are saying things or turns stories around that usually involves Sarah saying the stuff, but turns it around so that Jen hates the other person. So help me understand why Sarah acts like she is best friends with the girl, keeps on enforcing her to move in with her but also talks behind her back and says she feel obligated to live with her. Also sarah really does not have a ton of friends outside of Jen, she mostly hangs out with her bf and her gay best friend. Everyone loves to drink with her because shes a beautiful, fun girl but i just dont get her. And Jen works at a bar and is equally beautiful but has many groups of friends.

[mas21]

oh ya Sarah found out that they were sleeping together and forgave them in less than a month. At the beginning we all were very close. I still consider Anna and Jen two of my best friends. I see how Sarah is and how two faced and manipulative so i would never get to close to her.