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Old 17th February 2008, 8:46 PM   #1
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I have crush

I'm just wondering if it is approriate to let him know that you{woman} have a crush on him ? if yes how can you tell him in a profestional way without him misinterpret you being aggressive? i mean say it in a class way ?

he always in my mind.




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Old 17th February 2008, 10:20 PM   #2
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1)Is he married? 2)Is he your boss/manager/superior?

Is he interested in you?

I say just let it be. A crush is supposed to be enjoyed from a far and most of all, keep it to yourself. If you tell him, chances are, the crush feelings will disappear.
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Old 18th February 2008, 12:28 PM   #3
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1)Is he married? 2)Is he your boss/manager/superior?

Is he interested in you?

I say just let it be. A crush is supposed to be enjoyed from a far and most of all, keep it to yourself. If you tell him, chances are, the crush feelings will disappear.

He is not married, i never see him wearing ring. he is not my boss/manager or superior or anything.

should i tell him ? even if he is married ? i mean, i don't have a plan to form a relationship with him.

i felt he likes me too; i catched him looking at me when i do not look at him.
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Old 18th February 2008, 12:31 PM   #4
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He is not married, i never see him wearing ring. he is not my boss/manager or superior or anything.

should i tell him ? even if he is married ? i mean, i don't have a plan to form a relationship with him.

i felt he likes me too; i catched him looking at me when i do not look at him.
First..I would find out for sure if he married or not..if there is a way you could confirm this.. If he's not then I don't see a problem will letting him know how you feel. Good Luck.

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Old 18th February 2008, 12:38 PM   #5
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I would not tell a man that I am interested. Give him all the signs but I would not tell him.
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Old 18th February 2008, 2:46 PM   #6
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He is not married, i never see him wearing ring. he is not my boss/manager or superior or anything.

should i tell him ? even if he is married ? i mean, i don't have a plan to form a relationship with him.

i felt he likes me too; i catched him looking at me when i do not look at him.
Him not wearing a ring doesn't mean he's not married or in a relationship.

I don't understand why you'd want to tell a man that you barely know that you have a crush on him.
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Old 18th February 2008, 4:16 PM   #7
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I realized it's better to keep it to my self until my feelings will disappear; after all there's no point of telling him since we can't get into a form of relationship.

i agree no ring in his hand it doesn't mean he's not married. many married people doesn't wear ring though.


thanks for the input guys. my mind had been clouded these past few days.
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