if you meet someone who's totally into you, and he/she may well be your perfect partner- except for one problem- you don't feel you're " in love"... what would you do?

[Tony T]

If you have given things ample time to develop for you...what I mean is, you have dated this person sufficiently to know there is no significant romantic chemistry, get far from this person and don't even be friends.

If you have just met this person, give things a chance. If you are not attracted to them, forget it now. If you tend to fall in love quickly, you are in major trouble.

Trying to be friends with this person will only torture them, considering they have feelings for you you cannot return.

Staying in this kind of relationship will drive you to feelings of regret and resentment since, even though you may be somewhat comfortable, you will eventually feel you have robbed yourself of romance and passion that you could have attained elsewhere.

Leave now, don't put this off.