[tmarie55]

I have been dating this guy seriously for 4 months.
Now he dicked me over several times and 2 weeks ago was the final straw. He would make plans with me like "I want to make you dinner tommorow" and then not call me all weekend. He always apologized. He told me how much he liked me and wanted to be exclusive with me. So after the last time he dicked me I told him off via email and expected an apology...none came. Now tonight we are at the same local bar we always frequent (and met at)...it's like cheers basically...he leaves and comes back and hour later with a date and they are making out in my face! It has only been 2 weeks not to mention he was out of town for a week for the holidays. I feel he did it on purpose. Do you think he did it on purpose to piss me off or he is really just that ****ty?

[s_n_d]

Ah I see you found one of THOSE men.
I dont need to explain myself. Im sure you know you deserve better and you do.
A few days after my breakup with my ex, one of my friends(or so i thought he was) made a move on me. He told me EVERYTHING i wanted to hear from my ex but I dont want anyone but my ex so nothing happened. This man even made me dinner and made me meet his sister etc.. About a week later he was with someone else as I pushed him away after he tried making a move on me.
I believe you found one of these men.
I guarantee you he was seeing someone else or multiple people on the side when he was with you.

[Citizen Erased]

Yes he did it on purpose. Which makes him selfish, immature and a waste of your time. I can't talk much, I have done some pretty ****ty things in the past, but don't let it get to you hon.

So sorry you had to see that

[tmarie55]

Originally Posted by s_n_d

I guarantee you he was seeing someone else or multiple people on the side when he was with you.

I agree, we actually had his problem before of his seemily disinterest, I broke it off in a friendly way, and he made me give him a second chance. He took me on the most romantic dates...during the second chance round he told me he had dated other girls and none compared to me. I felt like he was looking for something better but at the same time we were not serious and I had told him at one point, trying to be the cool girl, that he could date whoever he wants. So I couldn't be mad. But he told me later that he only wanted to see me. All I can say is I didn't expect him to not date other people at this point of only 2 weeks, just not in my face. It makes me feel better to think that he did it on purpose to make me jealous.

[Lee725]

Originally Posted by tmarie55

he leaves and comes back and hour later with a date and they are making out in my face! It has only been 2 weeks not to mention he was out of town for a week for the holidays. I feel he did it on purpose. Do you think he did it on purpose to piss me off or he is really just that ****ty?

Without an ounce of doubt he did it on purpose, He was there alone, he knew you were there, he went out and brought her back.

He did it to upset you, as stated in previous posts, he does sound like one of those guys, whose understanding of the term exclusive is far from it's true meaning!

Be strong and i hope getting over this jerk comes quickly for you.