[marine]

SO em and my ex ex ex gf of 2 1/2 years have been apart for 10 months now.

and well she has a bf. but 1 1/2 weeks ago we started talking, I went over to her house 1 1/2 weeks go, and wellshe was sickso I was there taking care of her, one thign led to another and before I realized it i was kissing her, (about 5 times). Well I left feeling confused about hwo she felt about me, well on Monday, I saw her walkgin down the street and I offered to give her a ride home, we talked on the way there and it seemed like old times.

when we got home, she invited me in and we were sitting in her house, when........ ofr some strange reaosn our eyes locked and before we both knew it, we we're makign love. Well once that was over with.... I saw her mood change and she said "wat have I done???...... im not a cheater"

she then told me that it'd be better if I left her house for now. And i said ok, SO i gavce her a few days to think about wat had happened. and todayI saw her again and it was the same story, I gave her a ride, and we chileld at her house (no love makign this time) and i ended up staying the rest of the day there, we had a blast together, and she admited to me that she loved me.(which I also love her) and I told her to give me another chance. After more talkgin and a kiss, she said that she was gonan talk to her bf tonite (which at this very moment is taking place). she said that if she decide to breka up with him tonite, then she'd give me a call in the morning. if she didnt break u with him, she said that she didnt want to tlak to me anymore. I left her hosue about 4 hours ago (to give her time to think.)

I really trully love her to death. IM just stressing out so much......... idk wat to do. or wat to expect......... idk..........

opions?

[daisydufas22]

There's what I honestly think...... leave it until she has reached a decision. Do not communicate with her in any form until she has reached a decision.

You deserve someone who wants to be with you, for you. Not someone who needs to 'decide' who she wants to be with.

I know you love her and want to be with her but imagine if someone else slept with your girlfriend. How do you think the other guy feeling?

I really think she's playing games.......leave it, leave her.

Find someone who is worthy of you and respects you! You are worth more than she is willing to give.

[kitkat289]

right...well i can feel that its not easy to think that she's not good enough for me and blah blah when you love someone to death.
I would just advise you to maintain a distance even if she comes back to you and never let her take you for granted.Like do not be available to her always and give her more time to feel your importance.Things can only survive IF she truly loves and respects you and not keep you waiting.May be you can tell her that you are not really interested to get back,you asked just on impulse that time and that you are content with your life.That is the best thing that you can do!
"Our first and last love is.. self-love "

[thelegend]

I have shared your confusion my brother. My ex had text me one day all day long after almost a month of me begging her to come back. During that day she told me how much she loved having sex with me and that she wanted to sleep with me. So the day came we were in the middle of it and she kept saying this isn't right. So I stopped here we are 3 weeks later she tells me she only did it to see who she had feelings for so I say as much as it hurts you have to walk away she obviously doesn't really care about you or him otherwise she wouldn't keep you waiting she would just be with you.