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invited to b day party for real or was invited just so she can get free gifts??
ok yesterday i went to my female freind(lisa) b day party. i haven't seen this plantonic friend in approx 3 months. i say shes pretty nice, she set me up with a temp job during the christmas season. we aren;t really close ,but we hang out here and there -not often as she is buys and has a bf of 8 yrs and other friends she knew longer than me-she is popular.
my other friend (gordon)who is kind of pessitmic about ppl and is kind of selfish after realizing it for 7 yrs , says this girl only invited me b/c to fill seats, and b/c she wants presents. that is the only reason she invited me ,and that she doesn;t even like me-considering how i said i saw her more as a aquintance before
Gordon has never met Lisa. i talk about Lisa and tell him things to Gordon. like how i met her, but we hardly hang out once a 3 months. me and lisa don;t have much in common other than same age, same ethnic background,
i just got her a 10 dollar starbucks giftcard. she did mention that she didn;t want any present, and just to see me smile, but hey u can;t go to a b day party with nothing right. but u now some ppl say they expect nothing,but really want something right. "say it ,but don;t mean it" so i got her the giftcard.
Oh ya Gordon the guy that said he set me up with girls, but never did, said he'll get me a job at airport, but never happend. said he had a lot of girls, he knew ,but never set me up.
the thing i am asking is how can u tell if u were invited to a birhtday party b/c that friend of urs like u-u are her real friend and likes u , or if htey just invited u to fill seats and just to get more presents. any clues to find out...etc how can u tell. is
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