Ladies, why do females reply to these type of ads and when we talk on the phone......
they never mention what I was asking for. Example one ad i posted on craiglist said-"Looking for Foreplay Encounter" and the girl who responded called me last night and the conversation was like it would be if I said I was looking for dating.
The other girl responded to a ad that said-"Looking for a Indoor friend who I can have safe adult fun with" and we we talked yesterday once again they make no mention of what I want to do. They are just ignoring what I requesting and turning it into a dating thing.
you are not understanding my question, i said why do they not bring up that I want to kiss, massage, cuddle, and be playful when we talk for the first time? It's like i never even mentioned it in my ad. I always expect someone who replies to a ad like that to say-"So tell me more about the foreplay thing you talked about in your ad?
you are not understanding my question, i said why do they not bring up that I want to kiss, massage, cuddle, and be playful when we talk for the first time? It's like i never even mentioned it in my ad. I always expect someone who replies to a ad like that to say-"So tell me more about the foreplay thing you talked about in your ad?
here's a novel idea for you. how about YOU bring it up to them on the phone since it was your ad they're responding to.
here's a novel idea for you. how about YOU bring it up to them on the phone since it was your ad they're responding to.
that's like me responding to a female who wants to have oral sex and then when i talk to her on the phone i ask things like-"what's your favorite kind of music."-lol
Probably because they were curious about your ad, but might be too shy to come right out and say..."so, you want blank, blank and blank." It might also be that they are trying to feel you out and see if you are a psycho. I can't imagine any woman going to a strange man's apartment for "foreplay" and not spending a little time chatting him up to make sure he isn't hallucinating.
Probably because they were curious about your ad, but might be too shy to come right out and say..."so, you want blank, blank and blank." It might also be that they are trying to feel you out and see if you are a psycho. I can't imagine any woman going to a strange man's apartment for "foreplay" and not spending a little time chatting him up to make sure he isn't hallucinating.
well they feeling out thing is fine for about 20 min, but it's like they never bring it up and I shouldn;t have to bring it up since they replied to me. I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me
well they feeling out thing is fine for about 20 min, but it's like they never bring it up and I shouldn;t have to bring it up since they replied to me. I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me
You "shouldn't have to...." Where are you getting these rules and guidelines from?
I think your problem is that you are treating this as some kind of "normal" situation, as if you can apply ordinary interpersonal guidelines to it, when it's actually fairly wierd. Your callers probably feel that way too, and by the time they get you on the phone (and who knows what you are like in the "feeling out" phase...) they aren't sure how to handle it either. After a while of talking, they're probably asking themselves the same question: "why isn't he bringing it up? He placed this ad, I shouldn't have to..." Fizzle.
So bottom line, strange women who would respond to an ad looking for "safe adult fun" and "foreplay encounters" don't respond exactly as you expect over the phone, you are unwilling to take up even a little of that slack, and your conclusion is that they are annoying the hell out of you?
Maybe you should try your ad on stepford.craigslist.org.
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