Watching Porn.

Batgirl69 · 18th August 2007, 5:34 AM

I have been seeing a guy for abou 3 months and he is suggesting that we should watch porn. Is this normal? None of my other partners has asked this.
Just asking what you think

Citizen Erased · 18th August 2007, 5:36 AM

As long as you are comfortable with it, yes it is normal.

Batgirl69 · 18th August 2007, 5:43 AM

I am not comfortable with it, but I want to make him happy.

Citizen Erased · 18th August 2007, 5:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Batgirl69

I am not comfortable with it, but I want to make him happy.

What about YOUR happiness? If you aren't comfortable with this, then don't do it. If he is upset or annoyed by this, then that is his problem. The whole point of this is to enjoy sharing such an intimate part of sexuality and if you aren't enjoying it then there is no purpose to it whatsoever.

Never think you have to do something in bed you aren't comfortable with. Especially seeing as you have only been with him for 3 months. Better you set boundaries now then have mis-communication later.

Batgirl69 · 18th August 2007, 6:01 AM

He is so laid back that I don't think he would get upset or annoyed, but I am not ready for porn. Thanks I just wanted to know what other people thought.

Krytellan · 18th August 2007, 7:04 AM

I've watched porn with about 50% of my gfs. There's nothing wrong with it if both parties are willing. If you watch it with him without telling him your feelings beforehand though, it's not fair for you to hold it against him later.