Ok, last night I had a dream where I saw my ex. Not unusual- he often pops into my dreams. He had cut his formerly long hair short. This morning driving into work, I was thinking it actually looked pretty good, even though I always told him I liked his long hair and didn't think it would look good short.
This morning I took a look at his MySpace profile- he had cut his hair short- AS OF YESTERDAY. (it actually does look ok)
But... geez. Weird psychic moments I can do without....
__________________ Nobody wants to be monogamous- but they want their partners to be.
"He said he LIKED me, but he wasn't IN LIKE with me!" -King of the Hill
Let them come. I had thought s of my dad dying 2 weeks later he was dead. Its real.
I accept these kind of "foresights"- it's certainly not the first time in my life- but it bothers me to still be getting them about someone I'm not physically close with anymore, as well as someone I've done my best to mentally distance myself from. Yet it seems this kinda stuff still comes, mostly little stuff- I'll dream about him and then pass him on the road the next day for the first time in months and months- etc etc.
three days before my ex told me about having feelings for someone else I had a dream that she fell in love with another and told her about it. Of course she said that would never happen. Then, Saturday comes and BAM! I'm dumped for someone else! Dreams are crazy!
I posted earlier today, its called my dad and my relationship, read it maybe? its givin me a whole new outlook about my ex, and subcontious mind. what i know is that maybe we should'nt be so fast to blame in some situations.
Ok, last night I had a dream where I saw my ex. Not unusual- he often pops into my dreams. He had cut his formerly long hair short. This morning driving into work, I was thinking it actually looked pretty good, even though I always told him I liked his long hair and didn't think it would look good short.
This morning I took a look at his MySpace profile- he had cut his hair short- AS OF YESTERDAY. (it actually does look ok)
But... geez. Weird psychic moments I can do without....
Do me a favor please.. Dream about some numbers tonight and post them here tomorrow. I need to hit the lottery.
Ohh, It was a full moon last night. I wonder if that had something to do with your prophecy? Kind of cool.
I can relate though, to not really wanting even that connection to an ex. Really, how useful is it?
Full moon? Hah, maybe. I don't know how much the moon affects the mind, but I do know it affects me- I always get my period around the full moon. Like this morning!
Anyways- I don't really consider this kinda stuff prophecy. What I do think is that people can pick up "mind vibes" much like you can feel the body heat off someone w/o touching them, except it's not limited to physical range. It's like when you're thinking about someone you haven't talked to in a long time, think about calling them, and then suddenly they call you! I think it's a function of the "shared conciousness" to coin Jung.
I just hate that this connection won't break. I think about him, and I know he thinks about me (I have a tracker embedded in my MySpace profile and he looks at my page regularly). I wish we could both just stop, then maybe it would go away.
shared consciousness? isn't that the deepest feeling of collective consciousness? you know, that "connection" that happens between two (or more) people who have (had?) a very strong emotional bond with one another?
according to that, lovers have a very strong sense of sharing and feeling each other's emotions and thoughts, so that, in a way, it's as though they are momentarily one being.
or something like that.
maybe it's true. i don't know. if it is, i wonder why such a bond persists even after the closeness is gone.
anyway, i used to love this stuff, but now it just annoys me. case in point: a divination that said would contact me late this month, precisely in the time frame of july 25-29. i didn't believe it at first because, given the situation, there seemed to be no point in doing so.
and on july 29 i get an email.
coincidence? maybe, but i doubt it.
anyway, kitten, you know what? this reminds me a lot of that dream you had a while ago about the tattoos. i wonder if these dreams are a way to give you insight into changes he is undergoing? at least, physical ones.
my friend says that these are "psychic bonds" between couples or some such thing. i honestly don't know, but i do know that they are annoying as hell.
have you considered making a new myspace profile? i know it's not that big of a deal, but if you make a new one, at least he won't be looking at it, unless he goes to great lengths to find your new on. and in that case . . .
don't you wish they would just stop?
__________________ Heathcliff it's me, your Cathy; I've come home now.
shared consciousness? isn't that the deepest feeling of collective consciousness? you know, that "connection" that happens between two (or more) people who have (had?) a very strong emotional bond with one another?
Something like that, but I believe all people share conciousness on a deep level, and that we can be closer to some than others. Emotional proximity, I guess? LIke maternal instinct, knowing when a loved one has died, etc etc. I've read some stuff about how this is far more developed in animals (instinct) and that we lost much of it when our larger brains evolutionarily necessitated we birth our children earlier so that their heads could fit through the birth canal.... well anyways, its complicated obviously, and scientifically not well investigated.
This whole thing has put me in a melancholy mood- stirred up the muck as it were.
KM and Ruby, I also believe some folks have a bit of psychic ability, more than average, but mostly wrote it off as fortune teller, carnival stuff. But, I had the EXACT same thing happen to me that happened to Ruby. I'm not sure what a divination is, but a girl buddy of mine took me to have my astrology chart done abck in April. The guy said "you will have some type of mutual contact with your ex in 5 weeks or 13 weeks"...Like you ruby, I thought what for, and I don't care. And mutual? Why would I do anything to contact her?
Well, the 13th week started on July 13th, and the next DAY, I was going home from the gym on a street I never drive on, due to road construction..and guess what, there she was at the stop light across from me, staring at me in my car. She works during the day, and this was nowhere near her office, so unsure what she would be doing out at that time and there. Freaky...not as dramatic as the hair cut story, but still freaky.
Maybe we should ask this guy for those lottery numbers..??
I had some crazy, psychic maybe, connection with my ex of 4 years ago (First love).
I had a dream that she smoked weed, which she rarely does, at a mutual buddy's house which she then threw-up and passed out. While she was half asleep he tried to take advantage of her - more kissing than anything. I woke up thinking WTF? That was strange
When I saw her next I told her about this dream and she had this deer in the headlights look. The guy called me the next day, said he felt guilty, and explained what happened which was everything I dreamt about. Strange but true.
I never believed in psychic abilities until I experienced this. I think it's def possible to connect current/past/future reality with a dream and it's only a matter of time before it's discovered.
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