[spunkyteach]

I met the man of my dreams in Feb. I knew the moment he hugged me it was it. It is the fairy tale I've always wanted. But now, as we are getting ready to move in together I am finding things from his past. Nude photos of ex's not only in print but saved on his computer. Pics of other girls he's met and chatted with on his computer. Art work that ex's have made him still decorate his house, CDs and love notes the girls have gave him. He had been single for two years before me. He dated off and on but no real "girlfriend" we've talked about getting married (I am the one to initiate it) and he says he wants to have a life and a family with me. What I don't get is why he still has all of this in his house and car and what not. He says he doesn't talk to any of his ex's anymore but he still has one of their parent's numbers in his phone. He said when we move into our new house he will get rid of the artwork and things. (I don't know why we have to wait till we move) and he said he'd delete the pics of the one girl from his computer but he didn't (so I did) and he said he thought the nude photos were destroyed but they werent so I took care of that too (altho he has them backed up on a CD). I guess I know I love him and he loves me but it just seems his past keeps coming up and I can't deal with it. If we are together forever why does he need the other crap? Any help appreciated...thanks so much...