[ross37]

Me and my gf are about to have our 6months anniversary in a couple of weeks and im going to get her a heart bracelet, but i am having trouble about what i want to put on the heart itself. Got any ideas? Theses are the ones i have come up with so far...

-My initials and her initials
-my initials, the date we started dating, and then her initials
-just her initials
-the date we started dating


any help or ideas would be great!

[Star Gazer]

That is so freakin' sweet. I think the date would be best.

[Krytellan]

It is a sweet gesture, I will give you that. However, I personally think it's too soon for jewelry gifts (and I'm aware I might be alone there). I would suggest worrying more about planning a sweet evening together that focuses on her pleasure rather than buying her a gift. Maybe take her to the place of your first date or something of that nature. Show her a little extra physical attention. Something like that... or both.

[Star Gazer]

Krytie, what woman would scoff at jewelry?

[Art_Critic]

If you are going to give her something then just the date would be the best.. that way she would be reminded of the date when she saw it.

I did something cool for my GF for the first night we had sex...

We had gone to see the Borat movie .. So I took the ticket stubs and put them into those refridge magnets that hold pictures.. I found some the exact size of the ticket..
I gave her one for her fridge and I have one on my fridge...
It has the date of the movie on the ticket..

Corny.. sure... but it scored major points

[Krytellan]

Originally Posted by Star Gazer

Krytie, what woman would scoff at jewelry?

I don't know that she would scoff. I just am of the mindset that jewelry should be saved for when there is a sense of permanency. The six month stage seems the appropriate time to "up the ante" so to speak, but I would just balk at the idea of jewelry. It's just a weird thing I have I guess. Of all the things I do for and get for my g/f, I haven't once considered jewelry as an option. I am completely aware that there may be no actual basis for my feelings on it, but I have them all the same.

In thinking about it, maybe it's because I get the feeling that you've hit a new threshold with jewelry and you've now "raised the bar". With it could come higher expectations. That's my first crack at understanding why I guess.

[Star Gazer]

Originally Posted by Art_Critic

We had gone to see the Borat movie .. So I took the ticket stubs and put them into those refridge magnets that hold pictures.. I found some the exact size of the ticket..
I gave her one for her fridge and I have one on my fridge...
It has the date of the movie on the ticket..

Corny.. sure... but it scored major points

MAJOR points, A_C! That's awesome!



Krytie, I think ANY type of ring would up the ante, but other jewelry is okay, so long as you're in a somewhat serious relationship. I don't think you can put a timeline on it.