I know she is not a good person for me and I know she is a cheat, she cheated on me and her current bf, but why then to I still feel so horrible? Is it a pride thing because she is dating someone 8 years older than me and says how happy she is. I dont get it and just want to be done feeling this way.
It's time to move on, she cheated on you, Do not dwell on this. It was probably nothing you did. She has issues and you know it. If she throws the relationship in your face and says she's proud of cheating. You want this woman in any aspects in your life?
She has the nerve to throw it in your face, what is she like 13?
Let her go, trust me you'll be better.
What's going on with you, what's your backstory. How long were you two together?
We were together for 2 1/2 yrs she was my first adult love and I was hers as well. I know I have to suck it up and move on but man does it sting. Motivates the hell out of me but somehow I still hope for her eventho I know she is bad news. She cheated on the guy she is with now with me which was stupid on my part but she says how happy she is with him, does not make sense in my book but hey she is the one who has to live with herself. I just cant help but compare myself to this other dude but he is 9 yrs older than me and more established I am a yr out of college and making a name for myself. Oh well I will make sure I am better off than they ever would be and by the time I get there this situation will be way behind me.
She was your first, just know she wont be the last! lol. That's for real.
Trust me if she'll cheat with him, she'll cheat on him. They built their relationship under false pretences and lies. So at least be proud that they started out as cheats and might end as cheats. Hey they might get married and do more damage to each other.
If she's bad news as you say then it's not worth it to go backwards. Especially when someone treated you so bad as you say. So S.I.T. and move on, they'll be other women, go hit the gym, go out, eat, date around, go with your friends have fun. But what you do is keep moving dont lay down and die.
bitterness shows how heavily we depend our feelings or security or dreams on the very person. It is fragile. because people is imperfect, and capable of making mistakes. it's like want to support a whole buidling on a thin stick!
what did make this resentment and bitterness difficult to go? the problems is this very person or any person in the earth cannot and should not meet every your expectation and security need.
change your perspectives is good way to live
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yeah she already has cheated on the guy she is with me a few times which boggles my mind but hey who cares. I am ready to go out and have fun. Yeah lifting helps, I know she will end up calling again but this time I am not answering any of her calls. I dont know why but being burnt may be one of the greatest motivators out there. I apologize for being bitter but like you said lonelybird I did put a lot of my hopes into her which I learned is not the best thing to do, but hey you live and learn. Thanks for the responses.
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