[Dragonflys]

Hi Everyone

This is the first anniversary at the loveshack. I love this place, my interest has not waned at all. There are some great people around here.

I came here a year ago seeking solace while sifting through the embers of a bad relationship. Since then I have moved on, had a good look at myself, and really grown as a person. The information I have gained here through the posts and replies has really opened my eyes and given me an understanding that would have normally required years of experience.

It's a bit like cheating, but I'll take it.

Now I have met a wonderful woman who is as into me as I her, and I feel able to recognise and foster a healthy relationship. Time will tell the rest.

I must say a warm hearted thanks to Tony. Your replies have been very educational and your humilty gives it all perspective. And Mate, YOU ARE RIGHT about playing it cool. I have had dates with 5 women this year and made out with three. That's pretty good going when you consider that that is more than I have had in the previous 28 years combined.

I am still the same person inside, and I still look the same, but removing the fear makes all the difference.

Roll back the shoulders and look at the world in a non-judgemental, less serious way and people notice.

Thanx also to Sparkle, Lisa, Taressa, Dejette, Paulie, Reverend Fishbulb and the majority of people that I have forgotten aswell.

Oliver